Life Advice

Trust your butt, when it feels like shit, it's shit

If you want to win more often at rock paper scissors, look at the opponents hand. They tend to relax their hand a bit when throwing scissors and tense it more when throwing rock.

invest in a good computer chair if you can afford it. Having in a poor chair that you spend hours on could give you chronic medical problems for life. I wasted a lot of money on office chairs in the last year and the Steelcase Leap V2 is the best. If you can find a used chair dealer near you, you could probably talk them down to 300 if they have enough inventory of it.

Don't be a jerk and make multiple accounts on a site just to try and scam people. You are only feeding your own darkness and no one will like you unless you change. You are not helping yourself, stick with one account and work on yourself. Don't chose the easy path and do this shady behavior. Be better.

Pay attention to the energy that you put out before you complain about what you attract. Don't complain about golddiggers if you lead with your wallet. Don't complain about being taken advantage of if you refuse to set boundaries. Don't complain about people being fickle if you ignore those who are consistent in your life. You can't always help who or what you attract. But you can definitely influence it.

@burninghalo Those who embark on the path of magick have a similar outlook. The law of attraction. Understanding how will, intention, and thought can influence the trickle of causality is the first wake up call. Better to experiment before one begins to garner power, for the more power one has, the quicker the consequences of a careless thought or action. Nothing breeds self discipline like being conscious to the reoccurring cycles in life, and the beliefs, habbits, or anxieties that manifested them.

Learning how to read people based on how intentions and expressions convey the person in front of you. Itll be easier for you to avoid people you'd rather not have in your life.

@dregon45 Yes, its a vital skill, but do make sure you aren't jumping to conclusions. I remember bringing my friend to a con once, and apparently some girls he was hanging out with thought he was giving them pervy expressions, so viciously tore into him. Yeah, the thing was, he is prone to stress induced seizures from a traumatic home life, and he really needed help. They ended up looking pretty terrible after that, but luckily, my friend was okay after a few hours back in the hotel room and some potassium.