Girls only like jerks (stop using this excuse, grow a pair and read on)

Just be yourself and live your best life. I feel like getting into a relationship shouldn't develop into an obsession. Romance isn't gonna make your life better like a magic wand, so you don't need to be something that you're not. It's true, shy guys are usually gonna be in way less relationships in their lives, but if you're happy then what does it really matter?

Shy girls are neglected by many people too as if they didn't exist..◑.◑..存在感... Shyness costs shy people lots of good opportunities...

The reason why most guys feel that girls like bad boys are jerks is because of the fact that people put on it acts and that is the thing that a lot of people fail to realize that we all wear masks and some of us are able to take our mask off easier than others. but on other cases people wear masks not to protect themselves but to hide who they truly are.

enki, I think that's true. I'm extrovert myself so I always try to help shy girls, but they often play "hard to get" but then as friends. Basically, they always try to kinda say "no" in a half-joking, half-serious way. A lot of people don't get that, but I just see it as them being pouty.