These sites are so pointless

ngl? Neglect?? You do have some people who don't come on often enough to check their walls. There are also some who have their own codes, for example some users won't accept requests from young teens, some will only talk to people they meet in the forums, some have been here a while and may just be happy with the amount of people on their lists already. There are even one or two I know of who only log in to talk to one or two specific users and then log out again. Personally I usually respond to messages, but I don't often reply to those who just add me, because a lot of people just seem to add for the sake of it, not because of anything I've said/done, or because we've interacted in the forums. I just think there should be some form of link between two people, even if it's something as simple as 'I read **** on **** thread, and I couldn't agree more...' That gives both a topic of conversation to start from, and a genuine reason for the add.

Maybe the people your talking too arent intersted in you. I mean you have your shirt off in your profile pic. if that doesnt scream im here im here to get some i dont know what does

Ps it could be because you arent a great pokemon trainer you have believe in your pokemon so that they may believe in you

Too bad some girls here still exist that arent even looking for a relationship. Which is pointless and makes no sense. Its a dating site. But with their logic, we might as well change that heart logo to hands shaking. So in that sense, this site grows pointless over time. I know, someone is going to get mad and tell me otherwise. But all Im saying is its mainly for dating, the centrality of it. If you arent looking for a relationship, you might as well just go somewhere like Myanimelist or crunchyroll forums. Not here, where most of us looking get disappointment from the "not looking for relationship"

It's not nor was it set up to be strictly or mainly a dating site. "FAQs What is MaiOtaku? MaiOtaku is a fan made website for anime fans, mixing both a social network and a dating website. Some users come here just to make friends, while others are looking for dates. With our cosplay picture galleries, profiles, comments, and messages we think we are a great place to make friends, and our matching program makes us a great place to find Otaku that might be interested in a relationship."