What is "nice and caring?

@ Vanessa: There are more than two options. Rather than be nice or be an asshole, try challenging her in a playful fashion. That tends to work the best for me at least. I mean would you rather talk to someone who sets your pets on fire, someone who has no backbone or confidence and sticks to nothing but polite societal interactions as per usual protocol, or the person hands you a nerf gun and says "I challenge you to a duel!"?

@space cadet True ^ Anyone I think can be "nice and caring"

To the guys with the "Nice Guys Finish Last" complex, don't take my word for it, take the word of whoever this blonde girl is. "First reason nice guys DON'T finish last is because you're already finishing first in something... and that's being a fucking idiot." http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3VXXXX9iVPI

Blonde chick looks like the female version of a douche and looks absolutely unappealing...Am I supposed to watch and believe she has an all knowing authority just because she supposedly has a vagina?

Why that friend zone bullshit again. It's not friend zone it's the you're-hella-unattractive or your-personality-is-actual-shit zone. Being nice and caring is something I EXPECT from a partner... not give them a pat on the back for.

I think it's funny. Someone just slightly mentioned nice guys etc and like 6 people go crazy about it :D calm down guys. One answer to that would have been enough or maybe just ignore it :D

Realistically, when a guy is "nice and caring", they usually just want to get in the girl's pants. Not all guys but just many do this. Same thing for women but only to obtain something. If you're genuinely being nice and caring, keep being you. Perhaps, you're not expressing that part of you to the right crowd? Anyways, be sure to not get blinded either. It really sucks getting taken advantage of.