Flings or Serious Relationships?

I would rather have a serious relationship first than a fling. A fling only leaves you wanting more when they're already gone.

Sounds like a serious relationship is preferred over flings by most ^^ Good to hear. There's still hope for us after all I would have to say...

Never had a fling, nor a serious relationship. Obviously I'd want the latter.

@ xynomi Not only are they a waste of time cause you get nothing really outta it except a quickie but you take a chance with someone who might've slept around with who knows how many people. If you find a good girl or a good guy with actual standards and cleanliness that are looking for something deeper than the occasional sex scene, then I think you'll come out with a lot more genuine happiness instead of a person so fixated on sex after sex after sex. @ Dat Boi Same for me. Not looking now but when I do look I would rather it be long-term :)

Flings are dumb, mainly all you do is use people, fuck up feelings and it leads to bs. Never had one but I know how it feels to feel use because the other person didnt understand it was an actual relationship to you yourself. So yea. Real relationships!

^Ahh agreed. Life is short - serious definitely trumps the occasional fling ~

Hmm both Nothing wrong with a few flings till something serious comes along. It's cool as long as those feels don't come into play lol(For me). Wanting something serious is great..but sometimes a fling could lead to something serious. Having flings doesn't mean the people involved don't have standards or are nasty, I hear that way to often from some friends. If I meet a chick who has had let's say 60+ partners and she's only 26..I won't really care. It doesn't devalue who she is, what she has to offer or how she treats me. This topic is brought up a lot among my friends. But anyways that's how I feel about it