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animekid
Does anybody know any good dating sites?
meisterman1985
Muzukashi. :( In USA, too many pierced tattooed people. Some focus only on Christianity and nothing else.
yaasshat
Feb 04, 17 at 11:51am
Yup, met my fiancée on one. I used ok cupid and plenty of fish. I had plenty of luck finding tons of locals and getting numbers, but meeting up was a different story. I guess my fiancée was as desperate as me.XD Although, I did once have a(one...;_;) date with a nice veterinarian, I suppose talking about religion wasn't exactly conducive of a good date. Also, if you do choose another site, I could help you redo your profile, it's kind of bad...just saying.
animekid
Feb 04, 17 at 12:51pm
@yaasshat I started looking into OkCupid. I really like how you can search out any kind of similarity including anime. Not to mention it's free. Whether I'll have any luck is anyone's guess and that's partially on me as well. No I don't suppose that was a good idea LOL. Religion has to come up at some point but it's probably best left until the third date or something like that. Same with politics. I wouldn't mind the help, I understand that my profile is sucks ass. I've never been good with that kind of thing in the sad part is that my profile on here is honestly the best I've ever done >.>
yaasshat
Feb 05, 17 at 2:50am
The best...on here? Oh boy... Ya know something? I'm not exactly the most articulate or we'll versed, but even I can shine up a turd.;P Honesty, it's better to just be yourself and be honest with what you say. Also, if you want to have better luck, for the love of God, don't narrow down your likes to something as niche as "anime" or "video games". Just because someone doesn't mention either on thier profile, that doesn't mean they aren't interested in those things or can't get interested. I'd save the "dorky" talk for a later point or just slowly introduce it into conversation by asking if they have ever watched "x" or played "x". Unfortunately, many just see anime or gaming as things for kids or none functioning adults. Who knows? It's been a while since I was actively seeking and the dynamics may have changed a little. All I know is that getting replies/conversations/numbers, was VERY easy (I'm quite the mediocre looking guy, but I guess I know how to talk or something...Still not exactly sure.), but meeting up was where most would get extremely flaky. I used to get bored from time to time and post random things or make random comments on profiles that I either thought I had no chance with or really didn't care either way(Still managed a few numbers that way.). I once played the part of a pirate on a treasure hunt and all I got was the coordinates to a geocach. XD At either rate, I wouldn't be pushy, but if you do manage to get a reply, just send a few messages back and forth to get a feel and then suggest a time/place for something simple like coffee or drinks. Not a date, a meet up with potential. Typically, I tried to get a meet up to happen within a week or so time (NEVER get stuck in the stupid text tag game...EVER.).
animekid
Feb 05, 17 at 1:27pm
Yeah it is pretty sad but yeah this is the Best Bio I've ever done. Sadly it's really difficult to think of much else to add to a bio because that pretty much is me. I mean there are some other things I might like to do like I kind of enjoy going out and looking at nature and walking around but unless I'm doing it with someone else I really don't care to do it so it's sort of true but sort of not true. Breaking the ice is always the most difficult part. I think there was more wanted to say but I'm feeling kind of stressed and tired right now so of course I can't remember lol.
yaasshat
Feb 05, 17 at 1:51pm
Stressed and tired? I hear that, but be glad you have a job,place to live,food,clothes and transportation. Breaking the ice is easy. Never just say "hi" "how are you?". You want a little conversation, but you don't want to tell your life story. The objective is to just meet up and see if you two click. A bio just needs to talk a little about your interests, maybe job and hobbies. It's always best to let them see your personality than just read about it. You don't want to come across as awkward, desperate or needy. Just remember, until it's for sure a thing, there's no reason to feel like you need to put any pressure on yourself, chances are that they feel nervous and anxious too.
horrormanga21
good luck kid
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