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iamame
Dec 24, 16 at 11:09am
Do you think I should tell my gf about me being an otaku..a hardcore one to add....
ivo
Wagen @ivo commented on DILEMMA!!
Jan 01, 17 at 8:58pm
Yes, why not? If she likes you for who you are it should not be a problem, and even if she doesn't like it it's better to tell than having to hide it forever. http://www.theloop.ca/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/mansw.gif
chocopyro
Jan 08, 17 at 11:54am
Does she have any biases towards otaku culture? If so, let it in slowly. Otherwise, just have her sit down and watch some gateway animes with you, and when the subject comes up, spill the beans. You can't make someone else an otaku though. It either grips someone or it doesn't, and trying to force someone to like something you like is a violation of their free will to like whatever they happen to like.
sweetdeath
Jan 09, 17 at 6:54am
Why is this a dilemma to begin with. If you make doubts, something is bound to happen
aperfecthalo
Surely if you're in a relationship, you want the other person to know all of you, and vice versa? Whatever you do, don't pressure them into watching anime or reading manga if they don't want to - relationships tend to fail when one person tries to make another change.
travisemo007
i agree with ChocoBro. introduce he to your otakunice slowly, a little at a time, and see how she takes it. If she takes it well, let out some more. if she accepts pretty well, go all out weeaboo lol. Dont tell her straight up till you know for sure though.
neet_one
neeto @neet_one commented on DILEMMA!!
Jan 23, 17 at 3:31pm
Lying to your gf is never a nice thing to do.
iamame
IamAme @iamame commented on DILEMMA!!
Jan 25, 17 at 3:25am
Ohhkay..I made my mind..Im going to tell her straightly but seriously I dont think she would mind anyway..
iamame
IamAme @iamame commented on DILEMMA!!
Jan 25, 17 at 3:29am
gf:childhood friend her twin bro:my best buddy till now.. That is an advantage and Im going to use it..
ouma_adam
Jan 25, 17 at 12:47pm
maybe just lowkey suggest her a classic anime to watch, let her see what she thinks of it. If she enjoys it, then you can slowly introduce her to more general anime culture without going full blown otaku.
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