What do you do about a hacker stalker ex

I've been in a relationship with a young British gentleman for a year and a half. He's cheated on me, used me and almost pushed me to suicide more times than I can count. The only reason I don't just kick his rusty ass to the curb is because he's threatened my family and friends multiple times. I don't want them to get hurt and I'm really scared to tell him I don't want to be with him anymore. How do you deal with someone like that?

You're in Washington, he's a few thousand miles away. Also, police are there for a reason. I'd also hope that he's not "the sweetest" person that you mention on your profile.

People get really emotional after breakups and say lots of things they don't mean. Given some time they'll probably get over it and move on. Till then it'd be a good idea to block him on any site you go to, maybe change your passwords on those sites if you suspect he might be able to 'hack' them. you should be able to block them from calling you too, but if things get really bad you can change your phone number.

My suggestion is to call the local police or get in contact with his parents if you can. Someone needs to tell him to fuck off and leave you alone. Be fortunate you live across the ocean and he's probably too broke to actually come and stalk you irl. Block him on all social media you can, change your number, and just do what you can to avoid himm

Ok do what rains stated, but also add a layer of security to all your files by encryption. For example make a master file with many smaller files for example say you have I don't know your web engines in a file, and in another file you have pictures but in your pictures file you have them assosated by date and then my name. But make sure to encrypt every file you make in the master folder as well as encrypt the master folder. Then lock get a good security system as well and depending on what laws is in your country you living use a vpn as well as hide your IP address on top of that if guns are legal where you live get one and use it only as self defense.

Guys like that are cowards. They beat on those weaker than them and don't have the stones to take on anyone who actually poses a threat or a challenge. It makes my blood boil just thinking about it. Being an old fashioned man makes me respect everyone and never pick a fight. But it also means beating the respect of women into people like him. You just tell him if I EVER meet him, I will do things to him that can't be said in the company of women. Lets just say if you've ever seen that episode in naruto shippuden where pain pins naruto to the ground, that will be merciful compared to what he'll get.

Also, it may be a good idea to go to your local police and request a restraining order. Or...you could lock him in a room with me for 30 minutes. I promise you he would never bother you again.