How do you cope with the things that you can't change?

TheGreaterForce @tsuneharu started How do you cope with the things that you can't change?

Oct 27, 15 at 6:08pm

Is there something about you or your life that you have no control over; something that you have a hard time accepting? How do you deal with it?

altair88 @altair88 commented on How do you cope with the things that you can't change?

altair88 @altair88

Oct 27, 15 at 6:41pm

Given that there are plenty of things in this world that cannot be changed this can be a difficult question to answer. Life itself is something people cannot change, sure there are many different variables that can occur or happen to a person but it does not change the course of life. You are born, you struggle and eventually you die. That being said, I have a tendency to accept the challenges that life decides to throw at me because in the end i know i will come out stronger and more refined than i once was. Life is an endless struggle for all overcoming adversity will only build you into a better you, at least that the way i see it. "Get busy Living or Get busy Dying," as they say.

neeto @neet_one commented on How do you cope with the things that you can't change?

neeto @neet_one

Oct 27, 15 at 8:41pm

I deal with it by dealing with it. No sense in getting bent out of shape over things you can't do anything about.

I'm a Gamer @gtorocks commented on How do you cope with the things that you can't change?

I'm a Gamer @gtorocks

Oct 27, 15 at 9:34pm

Something cannot be done and as you said you got no control over. People called that life but I wonder what is worth living after we all die one day.

Jinsei @jinsei commented on How do you cope with the things that you can't change?

Jinsei @jinsei

Oct 28, 15 at 2:02pm

That depends on how you perceive doing something about it. There are many things we control today that we thought were out of our hands in the past. Often times your hard work lays the ground work for someone else to come along and accomplish something. And it's all thanks to one person out of millions deciding that they weren't just gonna accept something. Another way I look at things is also the fact that I can control my response to these external stimuli. There's always an element of control for those stubborn enough to defy the gods and take it.

Usagi Eri @lordelricsama commented on How do you cope with the things that you can't change?

Usagi Eri @lordelricsama

Oct 28, 15 at 2:13pm

My Rabbit Died: Sit back relax, Pull up a website, Lash out. Then Yankee Doodle. My computer got screwed by a hack war: Sit back relax, Pull up a HD DvD, Lash out. Then Yankee Doodle. Big dept: Sit back relax, Pull up a website, Lash out. Then Yankee Doodle. Father dies: Sit back relax, Pull up a website, Lash out. Then Yankee Doodle. Going to hell: Sit back relax, 2nd level of hell, Lash out. Then Yankee Doodle.

Sub @sub commented on How do you cope with the things that you can't change?

Sub @sub

Oct 28, 15 at 2:34pm

On of the most famous quotes concerning change : "God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference." - Reinhold Niebuhr You just have to deal with it. You can't control everything and when you realise and accept that you can move on.

Shebang @bonfiyah commented on How do you cope with the things that you can't change?

Shebang @bonfiyah

Oct 29, 15 at 4:09am

Pay no attention to it and continue forward. That's pretty much what I've been doing.

Genei-jin @geneijin commented on How do you cope with the things that you can't change?

Genei-jin @geneijin

Oct 29, 15 at 6:06am

Work on the things I can change and make them better

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Oct 29, 15 at 6:51am

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