can somebody help me?

Maybe he doesnt know what he wants...maybe he wants more but he doesnt want to mess things up so rather stay how you guys are now...or it could be that he is afraid of the age thing cause watch it boyfriend who is 20 years old with a 16 year old and he is sleepinf with you he gets found out and its jail for him not unless he inyends to keep things like this until you reach a certain age idk good luck to you guys

My honest opinion: You should stay away from them and tell your parents. The red flags are: Statutory rape - never a good way to start a relationship. There is a reason why there is an age of consent it is to ensure you know what choices your are making and you are able to deal with them emotionally / physically. Violence - possessive behavior and actually harming people who are interacting with you is a massive indicator that you should stay away from them. Your thread title is "Can somebody help me?" The answer is your parents / the police.

He knows what he wants, you're sixteen and he's twenty...enough said. He is not ready for anything serious and neither are you, but he wants to control you to get what he wants. Is it OK for him to look at other women? I'll bet it is. Really, you two are or should at least be at totally different stages in life. He's two years out of high school and you have at least two years left. He has an obvious attitude/maturity problem with his temper and taking advantage (Trust me, he did.) of a minor. If you care about him, leave him so he won't get his dumb ass in any trouble. Chalk this up to life experience and leave before you end up having regret. Sex is not everything(And trust me, there is much better) and besides, you're sixteen, focus on growing up first. The risks and red flags in this situation are not worth any fantasy or hope you may have of him coming around to the idea of a relationship. Do your self a favor and ask your parents what they think. If you can't bring yourself to doing that, you have your answer.

Yeah I pretty much agree with yaass. Guys like that who beat up other guys for such things have a lot of maturity issues and it could potentially lead to abusive and controlling issues down the road if you would get into a relationship with him. Fortunately you have a pretty good out in the fact you're a minor and can say you don't feel you're ready for a relationship yet, especially with someone who is now a legal adult and two years out of high school. I'd honestly end any thought of sleeping with him again or having any sort of relationship because guys like him do not have the maturity or the tact to properly handle a relationship, especially with a minor like yourself. I think it's in your best interest to keep things strictly plutonic with him going forward at least until youre done with grade school and he has a bit more time to grow up himself.

I agree with everyone that if you are seeking for sex then you are not ready for a relationship. You are too young and he can go to jail. Sex is not everything miss since you are still young and you got many option and long road ahead of you. Based on what you have said he beat people up that is not a reliable man you want in life. You can get yourself kill at this rate. Not only this, you think protection is good. This is why so many abortion happen. You not only ruin your life but another life as well. Try and think it again, we are not your parent so you have to think if this what you want with him. Don't make yourself look so cheap learn and cherish yourself more. Best in luck with you.

From my point to start a relationship based on sex is worthless. I know tons of guys like him, mostly poor souls and assholes. Do what you want. It´s your life...