Confessions

Donnie: I appreciate the effort I usually never confess unless I pretty much know she WANTS me to. If not, it's sort of selfish to do so otherwise and GUARANTEED will cause problems for you and your confessee

Probably not. Hard to say why that is exactly. I guess one issue is I've never really liked anyone enough to do that so I don't have any experience in that field. Usually it's women that do the confessing to me. If/when I get interested in someone I'd probably just try to get to know them better and I guess see what they think of me. I'm not that interested in people who aren't interested in me after all, and most of the women who have been interested in me really weren't my type at all. Bit weird I suppose.

^Indeed KaizenDream^ It gets easier with practice. Assuming you can approach your romantic interest already... First comes learning how to handle the initial blow of rejection then how to move on with class and a clear mind. You cannot go in over-invested in the outcome. What will be, will be and that is that so get it over with and discover the answer. If it works out that's cool, if not bummer but that's cool because there are always endless crowds of new and exciting people to meet just around the corner. People go up to strangers and ask questions all the time, it's natural until you act unnatural because you psyched yourself out or have ill conceived motives. That's why I say to always put yourself out there and get out of your comfort zone if you wish to expand it. The world will happily pass you by without a second look or care if you don't try to reach out for it. Trust me, sometimes it is better to regret something you have done than something you have not.

Rather than confess first its easier to ask someone out on a date to get to know them. Then depending on how it goes you can decide to go out again until you decide to become a couple.

I would, I like to think. I rather be rejected, then feel the pain of never knowing what could of been. http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-jdZj5FswPEc/VcsgvNOp9uI/AAAAAAAAjbE/k198V7uvJoQ/s16000-Ic42/025.jpg http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-cP9VcptKjQg/VcsgvtDh0dI/AAAAAAAAjbE/4H10WcX-0pw/s16000-Ic42/026.jpg -reference "Skill of Lure"

If we both know each other and I know there might be something there, then I would go for it. But I confessed to someone who was like SUPER shy and she avoided me for the rest of the time I was at school

If it's only a crush, I'll probably keep it to myself unless I knew for sure she has feelings for me. If not, I would rather keep a friendship than risk it. You never know what the future would hold, perhaps it may work out so there's no need to rush things from my end.

I believe it is best to always tell your crush that you like her or you will regret it later on in life. Let the heart speak what it feels. I cannot make eye contact when I confess to save my life, and I am terrified of it, but I still confess if the time ever comes. I've been confessed to an equal number of times, and either way my heart is racing. Life is too short to be "socially correct". Just do it. Tetora pretty much nailed it with that manga reference.