He love me but he is with someone?

So this guy love me and honestly I love him too. But He just want to be friends because he have a gf. But now he doesn't want me to stop loving him. I am trying to tell him that....he have to choose. Because he cant be with someone and love me. He says he dont care if i get married and have a family with someone else as long that I love him. But he doesn't get it. I can't be with one guy and love another. No I want to love one man alone....and I want him to love one woman alone....help?

Well, it may be time to end a friendship. How would you feel if you were his girlfriend and knew that he loved another? He is being unfair and selfish. If he can't decide between you or the one he's with, it's time to call it quits. It's one thing to love as a friend, but it's something else all together to have romantic love and if the two can't be separated, move on. Don't live in pain and confusion when you may be missing out on a better thing.

You make a good point. I guess I also fell guilty because i did hurt him (even though he lied to me) but the way he acting is unfair. Especially how i told him i don't want to talk and I am hurting. He keep pushing to talk to me even when I keep saying no and that I am hurting and tired...

He's trying to have his cake and eat it too and I'm sure his current girl probably wouldn't appreciate her man's affection being diverted at someone else too. Basically he's being an immature dimwit to think he can get away with such a "relationship" with two different girls. My suggestion is give him an ultimatum. He either gets with you full time or you cut off all contact, but if you want my honest opinion, a guy who wants to split his feeling amongst more than a monogamous relationship (unless you and/or he is poly) is not worth your time anyways. I frankly would stop talking to him all together because even being "friends" is just going to keep his hopes up of you and his current girl feeding his ego in "wanting" him. The only way to nip that in the bud is to cut all contact in all honesty.

What Cecil and yaassshat said. It's past time to cut him away from you for your own emotional well being. Knowing what you do about him like this should be an indicator that he would pull the same thing if he was with you.

Cecil is like reality... always with the hard facts x) but he said it... although if he loves the first one... He wouldn't have fallen for you

Sounds like he wants you to be his mistress and he is playing a pity card to make you feel guilty for being mad that he is with another girl. How scandalous. He manipulated logic to make him in the right. I vote for ending the friendship or what ever you have with him and find a cool dude who is single and loves you only and be only with you also not lie about something like that.

^ Kek ~T

First of all. I don't want none of that grammar attack business here ok? I am here to enjoy myself and get advice about my situation that you all have helped me out wonderfully.