He love me but he is with someone?

You're being played, honestly- it's very common for guys to do this; if you met him on here... i'm not surprised- but look; It won't work... Think about it- Are you and his girlfriend the only ones? If he's willing to accept the affection of another person than the ones he's with- yeah he's totally trying to keep you around if things go south- i know... because i did this crap too long time ago and a few of my friends do this. More so Quantity makes us feel superior and secure about our-selves. Some people may disagree- but thats what it is, Honestly; get out of there- my ex tried doing that to me too- 3 years of self-mental abuse and pain. If it's not just you and him then... It's just you- same for him; the difference is that he has more ladies around him and a back-up plan.

to me it's pretty simple, and i'm not one to treat love/like as a number system BUT!! if he truly loved you, he wouldn't be with someone else ... he doesn't truly love you and if you truly loved him, i think you'd support him no matter what, but you wouldn't be okay with him being with someone else; you would make him choose for both your sakes healthy and true love has an equal amount of selfless AND SELFISH elements, that's what i think TL;DR if he doesn't leave her immediately, he doesn't love you, he just likes you a lot and is indecisive if you are okay with him being with someone else/you a fling on the side, it's not love, probably obsession :(

i thank you all for the great advice. you all are right what he is doing is wrong and just not fair. i dont think he love me.

I kinda had the same situation with this girl I loved. It was an online relationship but still, it was hard. She loves me too but cannot be be by herself. She was someone who needs to be held and needs someone there for her at all times. Even though she really did love me she chose someone else. It's pretty much a kick in the face knowing you're better for them and that they love you while the abandon you.

@kobatolover your right how ever not every one wants physical I know some people who do online relationship and they video chat and stay faithful but@novadova sorry about your situation you can do so much better

I had a guy like that in high school. He was trying to be discreet about it. I didn't like him so he would do anything to get my attention. Which tended to have him trying to tackle me and 'blocking' me in sports in gym class even when we were on the same time. He would try to grab my butt and would say he didn't like me, but then go out of his way to try to touch me. Even his girlfriend found out which lead to me being picked on by twiggy brats. Guys like that just want to have more than one girl. Not sure what they are thinking. But don't ever fall for it, It can lead to trouble. If I got that much trouble from him trying to just get my attention, think of how much worse it would have been if he was successful.

i havent had a online relationship in a long time. im down to try it again. Being faithful is the key to long love. Like I will tell my bf (if i had one) if a guy was flirting with me. I know he will be mad but I rather him know about it and to let him know that I denied the guy. I dont like when girls or guys say "oh my bae doesnt need to know" umm what? o.e