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Are woman better at dealing with loneliness?

sadjester
Thank you so much for your comments. Another observation that I made is that I haven't actually seen many men say that they're searching for friends. Men usually search for romantic relationships. Are men maybe more romantically inclined when searching for relationships in that respect? Furthermore I've heard some women say that they aren't in a hurry to find a partner or that they aren't interested at all in a relationship. Most men though are always looking for/ready for a relationship.
verucassault
I don't think that's true. In my experience men are more inclined to get a free pass or one night stand than look for something serious. It may not be that way on this site, but most other dating places it's that way. Not to mention reality. Either my perception is skewed or I attract some dickheads.
arazno
I have my pillows to deal with my very lonelyness
vampire_neko
I was never inclined to one night stands. If I like having sex with a girl than I want to be with her again and again and again, etc. Which is why I prefer relationships. Constantly looking for a new girl to be with is way too much work, never saw the appeal and I don't have time for all that drama.
manny_heart
@sadjester idk, I think it's just this site. Could be wrong, just seems that way tho. The majority of my personal friends both dudes and girls aren't actively looking tbh. Only a few d:
arc
I think that for the most part, men are raised to have a higher tolorance for isolationism than women. Firstly, they are told to hide or shield their emotions. This sort of mental isolationism sometimes spills out to external isolationism. The most important factor is a person's sensitivity. I'm the most isolated person I know and I am okay with that.
sadjester
Seems fair, though some may say that they aren't actively looking for love so that they don't seem desperate. The fact that there are more men on the site could ultimately be an indication that women deal with loneliness differently. There is apparently more men than women in the world currently. There are approximately 60 million more men than women. The highest gap ever recorded between the male and female population. The likelihood of a guy not finding a female partner is probably greater in this generation than before.
reddwin
actually. research conducted in a college with 70-30 male-female population showed that the higher the male population in an area, the more likely females are going to be partnered. i think thats believable because there will be more people actively seeking out partners in that area (males). so less females theoretically means more single people.
verucassault
I read this a few months ago, and I especially love what this guy says about how men ruined dating. http://elitedaily.com/dating/im-guy-stopped-dating-found-next-best-thing/954714/ This together with this thread have me actually fantasizing a not too far off future scenario where good men band together to fight the corrupt ones who have potentially ruined dating. And women? Not to sound one sided here, I know it swings both ways, but the way this guy says it is pretty enlightening.
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