What's mandatory for you?

What's something that is mandatory in a guy/girl for you guys? For me it has to be that they have to cosplay.. by cosplaying I mean outfits AND wigs.. they don't have to now but should be willing cause I'd like to share my cosplaying world and do skits/photoshoots/groups with them.

Mandatory would be expressing intelligence in a way that doesn't rub off on me wrong. If they're cocky little bastards, I'll punch the cocky out of them because people like that piss me off. They also have to be fluent in either English or Spanish. Or not fluent, but able to talk to me in either language.

Mandatory for me would have to be a mutual interest in a few things, such as reading, writing, or drawing, so there are things to talk about, and creativity would definitely be a plus, a creative person really sparks my interest, and I agree with Kyetge! a cocky/ignorant person is someone I have no interest in, and speaking the same language would definitely be useful, but also speaking a different language would be cool, I've always wanted to learn some new languages :D

wigs?! I would never wear a Wig.. I grow my hair to the desired length, authenticity miss... authenticity... that being said, i dont have anything mandatory, I do have alot of things that I consider deal breakers, though the list would be far too long.

I ask for too much XD They have to be physically appealing to me , close to my age, good people, love me back and absolutely NO cheating or I'll just show them where's the door.

My age or older within a 3 year range, look decent, just be an Otaku, lol. To really be with someone forever tho they must agree with me politically and such other important issues too or I wouldn't be happy. >.<

Oh, and I'll add something I just thought of right now: They have to TALK BACK to me!! A good listener is not always appreciated. Sometimes I want to converse, not rant, and if the person doesn't say much then I feel like I'm not communicating. They also have to be assertive sometimes, because I tend to dominate. :P

Cosplaying is good, means I dont have to look stupid on my own -_- Not too fussed about age, in either direction. So what else....? Someone interesting, that can hold a GOOD conversation, either geeky, about stuff we find interesting together or even something intellectual, like if they have something they like that I dont know about, tell me the innermost workings of it, trust me, I want to know. Someone that will tell you when theres a problem should be a universally mandatory requirement of all relationships. Honestly, you cant work out relationship problems on your own. If youre truly in it together, work it out between yourselves...

They have to be a Main character. If they don't have that main character Mentality i prolly won't even listen to them much.....