Virgin Talk

Fuck sex and relationships. I want a sugar daddy that will give me money and expect nothing in return. Like give me 10,000 dollars and then leave. (Just kidding...kind of.) I wouldn't like a relationship or sex at the least because of my past experiences. I don't attract guys my age because I'm a early developer. Some have morals, and some don't. The guys that do like me at my school and are my age aren't as intellectually stimulating to me and don't have my best interests. That's just from my experience. It's basically a dilemma really.

laifu - I don't think sex makes a selfish person in general. You either are or aren't. Sex doesn't change who you are. neet - I know people who saved themselves for love or even a specific person but it didn't make them more likely to stay together really. Though it's more likely to last than someone who sleeps around lots of course. By the same token, being with only one person can fuel curiosity on what others are like. At the end of the day it really doesn't matter. The sluttiest girl I've ever known (30+ guys by 13yrs old) is happily married and has been for a few years now.

Neet, Here's the deal, selfish people have selfish sex. All she cared about was "performance", but even premarital sex can be about much more than just sex. If you're disappointed about sex, usually you talk it out and work on things, sex is about to people bbecoming as one and if the two can not are not trying to please the other, it won't work. Also, even inexperienced people can and do have disapointing sex. Sex is so much more than a mere physical act, but maybe I'm just odd.

"(30+ guys by 13yrs old)" sorry I kinda threw up a little in my mouth just then. anyways vamp, If someone is curious then I think they were never really saving themselves for 'one' person in the first place in my opinion. Still, There are indeed plenty of exceptions to everything. Nothing is foolproof so I can't say you're wrong.

yaasshat, I didn't mean to imply it's just a physical act. There's very clear undeniable meaning and impotence to it, to some people anyway. I was merely speaking within the context of the physical, as this is something that involves both physical and emotional elements. oniiai, just some speculation and theorizing that's all.

People are always curious. Whether that curiosity is enough to cause someone to cheat or break up is another matter. But being curious is perfectly natural. I wonder a dozen times a day what this or that girl is like in bed even though I don't try to sleep with them. oniiai - I'm experienced, others here not so much, lol.

Yes vamp, being curious in and of itself is indeed natural. I was simply commenting on the prospect of that curiosity being acted upon which is what I assumed you were alluding to. Sorry for any confusion I may have caused or misunderstanding on my part.