Lost my girl due to jealousy.

After 2 years and 2 months my ex had the last straw of me being jealous. She said she was tired of it and hasn't talked to me in over a week. I really made a change in the last month... bros any advice?

I got you. Give me a second to rummage through my own personal experiences to help you. First off, you're twenty one. This kid shit has gotta stop. Wait. Scratch that. First off, why're you jealous? You do something to feel guilty over? Is that why you have a fear that she might mess around with someone else? Or has she done something to make her not trustworthy? Second off, if you LOVE her, any fighting should always be calmed down with an honest, sincere hug. i was in a relationship for 3-1/2 years. I know what I'm talking about. Don't experience the pain of loss, and regret with someone you may want to marry some day. It's best to just let go of the jealousy. Don't let it consume you and make you into a bitter, hateful, rampaging, asshole. I've been there. It pushed my ex away and I lost my own little family because I didn't let go. It's only through the pain and suffering will you ever learn to grow up. "The best lessons in life are learned through Love, Pain, and Heartbreak." - Kensaku Toahiku You bet your sweet ass I came up with that. And it's true. Don't be a clingy shit, either. People want their space sometime. Also, it's kind of hard to say whether or not you two SHOULD get back together due to lack of information on what was experienced, and your personality types. Moral of the story: Balls up, and go balls deep. Make up sex is the best.

No one wants to feel untrusted, especially not in a relationship with someone who is supposed to love them. Anyone would be hurt and feel like they have to walk on eggshells in a relationship like that. Unless she has given you a reason not to trust her then the jealousy has no reasoning and is completely unfair.

Buck up and move on. Learn from your mistakes so it doesn't happen again. ...chances are she wasn't the one anyway.

Hi bro. This is something I actually have experience in. To keep it short and simple, there are some who like, hate and don't care if you are jealous. Those who hate it could hate that you don't trust them or that they have something to hide. (Not cheating, but a capability of cheating) Hiding something makes her angry at you because shes angry at that part of her, or is just angry you can't trust her. I had a girl who said she didn't drink alcohol at a party when I wasn't there becuase she "didn't want anything to happen". we got in a fight over how alcohol doesn't make a loyal person easy and she got defencive. What you need is someone who LIKES it. Now, not someone who likes it and does things on purpose to make you jealous. (also had one of them, but a story for another time) You need a girl who sees your jealousy as a sign that you love her, that you being jealous is you claiming her and keeping her from what you view as threats to the relationship. When you are looking for a new girl, be sure to point out your jealousy habits and what they mean for you. Don't suppress a part of yourself, find someone who accepts or likes it. Hope this helped.