You like him them but they dont like you

Anyone else find themselves in a situation recently where they like someone but that person is just completely oblivious or doesn't seem to like you the same way?

Everybody talks about the "friend-zone" I think for guys there's a sister zone. When a female friend becomes trusted you become family. I don't know of a good way out of that.

To tell you the truth been there so many times, I say fk it. What was worse is that they were together with your friend after wards. So fk that love crap.

Well, we're talking about girls here. When a woman seems oblivious they really are locking you into a friend zone. With a guy there's at least a chance he was just not attuned enough to notice.

I hate being the "friend" to that one person I really care about. But at the same time, I really cherish my friends. And maybe even put quite a few that liked me into the "friendzone". And for that, I am sorry. I know what it feels like. Trust me.

Yeah. That's just it. It's better to cherish your friends then have a boyfriend. Boyfriends come and go. If you really like someone beyond a crush and they trust you that could be a special relationship for life.

Yeah there has been times where i liked someone but i was seen more of a friend, not really a good experience knowing your good enough to go out with but not enough for them to go out with you

Yeah. I'm not going to lie. I have been weak in my life. I've had a crush on someone so bad that I could not be their friend anymore. I'd give and give and not get what I needed. The problem was me. They never intended to use me. I was the source of imbalance. All I could do is walk away and heal myself.

Sorry to double post, but there's a second half to that. More than 15 years later I found her online again and hit it off as friends once more. All that extra that I put in didn't go away. She's still very cool and very much my friend.