Having a hard time "making friends"

Hello.. My names Emma. The problem is not that i have a hard time making them its that i have a hard time keeping them around.. lately i feel like i meet people.. then 3 days later they never really talk to me again.. I'm so fed up with having absolutely no one to talk to or play games with. But on the other side.. i feel almost annoyed when i talk to most people. whats a girl to do.

Maybe its particular types of people you don't like. I feel the same way you do......i want to be with other people but at the same time other people can be annoying. Well, i could be your friend.

Im with ranger on being friends :3 i dont mind adding a new friend to the list, as long as you talk to me i'll continue talking to you ^-^

I'm not a girl but I think your problem have to do with your criteria on making friends. Do you approach them first or they approach you? Usually conversation is both side but who started first. What conversation did you and your friend had before? Did you offended them or your question or statement make them dislike you. There are many other reasons. I can be your friend as long as you can keep me entertain xD.

Hi Emma! I'm pretty tolerable. I guess my thing is that I try not to be a bother. So, say, if rubyluvsu doesn't message me I try to fight the urge to chat. I never give up on a new friend: it's just sometimes hard to figure out their personal space. I don't come with a 3 day trial so you don't have to worry about that. Feel free to add me as a friend. I guess the other thing is.. what is this annoying feeling that you have? Maybe by explaining what turns you off to conversation your new friends can avoid it.

For the longest time from middle school until early college, I didn't have many interests other than staying at home, playing computer games and watching anime all the time. I got into most things late so naturally I also got interested in hanging out and making friends after my first couple semesters of college. I mean I had friends in high school too but just not as much as I do now. People who love to socialize seem to be very welcoming as far as making conversation and friends go. And hey, if they judge you and act nasty to you, you're better off not knowing them! Just be yourself and if you need time to help discovering who you are that's fine too. You are not obligated to behave or dress to fit into the standards that our society believes is ideal. I drifted away from that a few years ago and maybe they see it in my attitude that I'm my own person but they never give me crap anymore. I'm sure in time you'll succeed meeting a lot of cool new people and having fun being around their company :). You seem cool and I wish you all the best in making cool friends, which you most definitely will!

too many factors but if you want my opinion I think its part of growing up. there were many good friends that I lost in touch with. making friends and keeping them were so much easier when we were kids but that's because we didn't have expectations or judge them quickly. I think as adults, we're more afraid of being judged, and most do the same to others. or it could be a personal thing, like an inability to express yourself, feeling disconnected with others or afraid of what they think of you or feel uncomfortable planning something. im lost now *throws a ball* http://new3.fjcdn.com/thumbnails/comments/Blank+_c6b0323132f01c0e7fcb2277766f9c09.gif but don't be too conscious about it. try to keep in touch especially if you get along well. for me If its hard to keep friendship if we don't have the same interest and because of that its hard to make and keep ongoing conversations

I never had problems making friends. I'm a pretty friendly person. But I also have trouble keeping friends. For some reason I can make friends easier on websites like theses. But I wouldn't mind being friends with you, I really don't have many female friends lol

I understand what you mean. When I first came onto the site I was talking to lots of people but as the days progressed I slowly stopped talking to people. I find it hard fitting in so I'd be happy to be friends if you want.

What do you play? Your bound to find someone to play online here at least. Also if anyone doesn't come back to you it probably means that it wasn't meant to be in the first place. Maybe its not my place to say but you don't really ' make' friends. It just happens.