deal breakers?

As the title says. For me mind games, abusive behaviour, being pushy.

Havent really thought about it, im pretty easy going. I guess if she always puts me aside waiting for another guy who never shows, thatd be a major one. Like "oh youre a nice guy but i already have someone who shows up once a month, we never talk but were totally dating."

overly clingy (needing more and more of my time), no concept of personal time, immature or irrational behavior leading to or during an argument, mind games, unwillingness to experiment.

-They have to treat animals well and they must be kind to the homeless and less fortunate. -Lack of confidence. I know I have self-esteem issues, but I'll laugh at my insecurities and try to make 'em positive. If my partner can't do that and is completely reliant on my reassurance, we're done. -Pushing for sex. Though sex is completely natural and healthy, I'm abstinent and if my partner doesn't respect that and keeps pushing for sex, they can go find someone else. -Abusive behaviors. I'm not one who will take a punch and do nothing about it, so while the cops come, I will fight back and beat your ass. -Lack of independence. I don't want a partner that's with me because they need me, I want a partner that's with me because they want me. If you can't stand on your own, nope.

For me, it would definitely be mind games. I get enough of that with my family. Another would be immature, because I already have to deal with irrational people. Also lastly, but most importantly, someone who is too... how should I say, lustful. My reason for this is because from what I've seen, and heard, thinking with your libido rather than your head, can lead to disastrous results. My cousin didn't understand this, and now he has to deal with a big mess.

Coming from my previous relationships: I was accepting of things he liked that I did not, but when I liked something he didn't he wanted me to change it. Towards the end he kept forcing me to go on like Skype and do things for him to get off on and kept trying to push me toward sex, which personally I am a virgin because I'm really not ready for that. Another was never there when I needed him or even around too see me. I know I have a lot of personal things I need to work through, but I need some one there to help me too.

I don't like being tested. Being put into a situation to see if i would react "the right way". I find this BS. I'm pretty straight forward, if it needs to be known or want to find out, just ask. Hate that shit....

Too clingy Bad health habits (I.e. smoking) Immoral behavior Lies Cheats Pshycological warfare.