Sex before marriage.

*seconds high fives Jean* about time someone says that

I think I have the perfect excuse to do an al in all my future dates or adventures I'll will say a a oh sorry I'm saving myself for marriage but butt sex it's ok

I am a dude, but I hope that you may find my opinion beneficial nevertheless... Eh...I don't really see anything wrong with having sex before marriage. Just as you can't simplify people, you can't really simplify the progression of a relationship on a time-table. I am rather...uncertain on my feelings on the topic between casual sex and "making love," but if it is about just "making love," then by all means, go for it, so long as both parties' feelings are mutual.

Kissing is a perfect example of lust too, as can be some thing as simple as a hug. Just a little food for thought, speaking of, so can thoughts be.

Depends on the person. An acquaintance of mine had a nasty divorce with her then husband because she claimed the sex was horrible. She said it really ruined things between them. Had she known beforehand she says she probably wouldn't have married him. Her second marriage fared much better, but she said it changed her view of sex before marriage.