Sex before marriage.

I think buttsex counts, as well as other things. I mean, gay/lesbian couples have other things besides penis-vagina intercourse.

Some people are. So they do have things they would consider sex. XD It's really up to the person. Some people have different standards like some consider anything beyond kissing to be sex, and some only consider intercourse, and some count oral or not.

Sex is always good before marriage. How will you know if you can get each other off. I do mean any kind of sex or kinky type act is all good. I second @Kihagura. All should be go. The world is a great big place. You got to keep a very open mind now a days.

@Fish Stealer Luffy When you love someone enough and you've been with them and are completely comfortable with them, you're willing to do things you may not have done with other people... sex is different.. I don't know exactly how to explain it but I think as far as getting someone off, what matters most is that you care enough to want to get them off. So while attraction is important, I think comfort and love is more important than what you might misconstrue to be sexual compatibility.