Is weight an issue?

I'm going to say that everyone has a personal preference, but that some people care too much about a person's size and forget about their character. You never know what you are overlooking...

Well if she talk to me and I was not to nerves to talk to her and she was single and looking for someone to date. I ask her out if I found her attractive and I saw we had something in common. I want to date someone I have a few things in common with. Well I'm a fat guy, so the girl have to be interested in date me too. I like all body types. I care more about her personality and the way she thinks.

Skinny to chubby is my way of dating m8. I mean, we all have limits, right? Not to be mean, but I won't date a fat chick, I'm not that desperate. Either way it goes from those weight values. I do go for personality and not entirely their appearance, but that is certainly a plus.

I don't generally judge people on weight. I have a variety of friends at a variety of sizes, and I've never really considered their weight a problem. My general rule of thumb is "as long as you take care of yourself". There are big people that take care of themselves. There are skinny people that take care of themselves. There are fit people that take care of themselves, etc. The exact opposite can also be said, about not taking care of themselves. That's where issues usually fall in line with "weight". I usually look for average-ness in a person. I have a fondness of people who aren't too skinny, but aren't too big. Curvy, perhaps, but not overtly hourglass. I've dated a person that was as thin as a rail once though, and she was pretty cool.

My rule is if their BMI is higher than mine at the given moment then they have to promise to go on a diet and slim down - I'll even help! Currently the girl I'm courting is at a BMI of 24 and skinny as rail, so I'm not worried.

I guess you could say weight is a rather 'large' issue to me. It weights heavy on my mind, and seems like it'd be a real burden to deal with. I wouldn't want this post to be bloated but I gotta say it's a huge turn off, a real big problem if you will.

Skinny guys and chubby guys doesn't really matter to me much it basically how that person loves you in the end and accepts you for who and what you are.But I certainly don't want another guy to break up with me cause I love eating junk foods and I love drinking water. I had this one guy that wanted a Megan Fox body so I just didn't see the effort to be that in love with him anymore or be someone I just couldn't be it a total turn off for me to be sexy in his eyes one moment then him losing interest cause a gain a few fat rolls in my stomach and it such a pain in the ass to always be concern with my weight and try to be a normal weight he would love.It takes a lot of love and I mean a lot to put up with guys like that.It also a major confident and a major put down for a man's ideal weight or to be a man's ideal weight and trying your best to keep weight off you just so he won't fall outta love with you.So since I would never want to feel negative or feel worthless or have my ego hurt I wouldn't want to put my man in the exact same position he didn't need to be perfect in looks or have a six pack he can certainly be a skinny trig and lankier with not muscles what so ever.Or he can be over weight with ache.It all about the ego if your man have a great ego he will stand tall and think he is the hot shit and that's exact how you want him to feel and that how you want your girl to feel if you get rid of the insecurities then you will have a happy relationship with less or close to none emotional issues.Also when you deeply in love looks tshh you stop seeing looks altogether and looks just wont be an issue nor will it cause some issues and conflicts once your reallllllllllly in love.

Evidently an experience I wish to see lol @AFK However, weight doesn't bother me. What does bother me is if you eat everything in the world then don't worry about your health. I eat garbage once in awhile but I personally want to keep a bit slim. Which is still being worked on. My goal is to get a flat stomach and im sorta almost there. But it isn't something im doing to attract all of everyone. Its just for myself. because that is what I want. Now what does feel really good is if you have someone and he/she supports your efforts, that makes things even better and you get the drive to try harder.

i dont think it really matters as long as she is a laugh to be with and ready to go at it in the bedroom all day and night