Is weight an issue?

Unfortunately toilet paper by itself is completely insufficient particularly since American toilet manufacturers refuse to progress technologically and install a bidet. http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bidet So for a quickie tutorial: 1. Keep ass hair shaved. 2. Do your best to do #2 before your usual shower (not always possible). 3. When cleaning in the shower, don't be afraid to clean that hole with soap and water. (I finger it to the second knuckle a couple times with soap and water so it's super clean!) If you have to use public restrooms then you have a couple options for after cleaning. Some women often carry wet wipes which of course work great after an initial cleaning with toilet paper. For men, since we don't usually carry purses or anything, I will often get either toilet paper or paper towels torn into fourths pre-damped with me into the stall as a substitute. (Don't use too much paper towel or you might clog the toilet!) When wiping, be gentle but thorough. Wipe both ways to get any excess and around the periphery. Then use the damp wipes to clean the hole itself. Make circular motions, nearly fingerings the hole as the skin wrinkles around the entrance and the wrinkles will trap "debris". Be gentle with your anus at all times, don't hurt yourself. And now to pretend I didn't go off topic; I agree you should want to be healthy but I appreciate women who are comfortable with their bodies even if they are chubby or fat. For some reason it bothers me when a girl who is only 10 or 20 or 30lbs over some predefined ideal weight calls themselves "fat". I feel like telling them: "I'm sorry you have more curves than an anorexic supermodel, but you are not fat!"

I'd like to share my 2-cents, and reply to a few posts. === user: (▀̿̿Ĺ̯̿̿▀̿ ̿) best name EU date: May 16, 14 at 8:15am Which do you prefer? Skinny, thin, average, chubby, fat, overweight --- I prefer skinny, thin, or average girls. Although, I don't have much relationship experience to compare that to. === user: Rou date: Jun 02, 14 at 5:00am I feel conflicted admitting it but weight only became a turn off after I improved my appearance and also lost weight. --- I am 5 ft 9 in tall. I used to weigh 230 lbs. I was seriously overweight, and I assumed that people weren't attracted to me because of my chest. For 2.5 years I worked as a Labourer, and I lost 80 lbs. I don't work in Labour anymore, and have held sedentary jobs since then. I am 5 ft 9 in tall, and my weight fluctuates between 135 and 150 lbs. I feel so excited about my new appearance. However, I've created this expectation that my partner should also be lean. I think that I might have an eating disorder. On occassion, I am a ravenous eater. I remain lean, but sometimes I tell myself that I'm fat. I don't think I have a physical problem. I think I've got a mental problem with how I view my own weight, and that of others around me. === user: Karasu date: May 16, 14 at 9:14am Bones can be rather painful in bed, and cuddling is excessively uncomfortable... --- I felt uncomfortable hugging my grandparents because I could feel their ribs pressing against my chest. Now, I think I present that same image to the world. Now, I wonder if people are not attracted to me because I'm so lean? === user: 徐々に date: May 31, 14 at 7:25pm They say a person's car relates to what they like/want on a partner. Long story short, I drive a Miata. --- That reminds me of the movie "Transporter". I think the "Inspector" said that the way a man treats his car is a representation of how he treats himself.

I just don't like fat and chubby but its more of a health issue. I want a fit girlfriend that i can outdoor activity's with like climbing mountains exploring rough terrain. if she is fat/overweight those activity's become harder to do.

I don't much care for overweight women one bit. If they're a bit overweight that's not a problem since it can be fixed with a change of diet and exercise, but after a certain point there's just no going back for some people.

Last two girls I've dated have been chubby, so I guess it doesn't much matter to me. Really, as long as she has a nice personality, takes care of herself, and treats me as well as I treat her, I don't judge.

What if the girl is trying to get more fit and is having trouble succeeding??? Does that mean that she wont have a chance until she succeeds... maybe she needs someone to give her some encouragement....