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Is it wrong to be desperate for a relationship?

bookwatcher
i think we've all had moments were we were desperit for a relationship. I know I use to be. At first I was to clingy and then when I saw how that pushed my bf away I became distant and with the flow. That did't work either. Now I just want to show my true self and just hope someone will see me and like what I am. Its best not to worry about it and forget all that need of wanting a relationship. Its better to wait for a true relationship than to be stuck in ones that are doomed to fail and will heart the heart.
the_geeky_panda
Bookwatcher speaks truth right here! If this was on Reddit, you get my Upvote.
tornadomushroom
You're young kid. Don't worry too much and work on yourself. I think it's fair to say that almost everyone is desperation but all at different levels. Just chill and go with the flow.
drjaychan314
Nah, just dont make it obvious
xueli
I wouldn't say that it's wrong, but I would say that desperation is unattractive
jineko
you'll just end up with the wrong person if you are :| been through this a lot of times LOL.
brentr
I think you should turn desperation in to determination. Be determined to ask the girl out, or go to the gym. or just talk to people. Just do what ever you need to do to feel like your moving in a positive direction and things will work out. The last thing you want to do is feel stagnant.
sweetcroissant
i know it sucks to want a relationship but not be able to find one! but i think it's important to focus on being okay with being alone and liking yourself before getting in to a relationship. things will all fall in to place eventually. ヾ(*´∇`)ノ
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