Is it wrong to be desperate for a relationship?

Relationships can suck sometimes! So stay single until you're comfortable with being alone! Depending on a guy/girl is never a good thing. :( speaking from experience

if i have learned something i have learned that love isn't lost to be seek for , its a beautiful accident you dont know why / what / how it just happens , you are young just be yourself one day you'll find mrs right :) .

I'm a girl, and the problem I have with desperate guys (I've encountered several) is that they only want to date me because I'm compassionate, open, and accepting. Now, this could be a great thing, if the guy was also some of those traits, as we could make a great team, and that's something very important to me! However, every single one of the guys who have wanted to date me, who all seemed desperate, acted like they wanted me to be more of a mother to them. I'm strong-spirited, and I want my partner to be able to stand on his own, too. None of those guys were capable of that. They wanted me to hold their hand like a parent or guardian. They wanted me to save them.. to MAKE them stronger just by being with them.. they did not want to become stronger of their own will, which is the only way it'll happen in the end. They also wanted to move very fast, and were far too sexual-oriented for my tastes. I don't want to do it every night. Sex is hardly of much importance to me.. I'll do it more often than I care to if they enjoy it, but it really bothers me, the amount of importance they gave sex.

I honestly just want to find someone who is generally nice and has similar interests to me. I don't exactly care about sex and I would like to have a healthy long term relationship with someone in the future that would be willing to take things slower so that we could really get to know each other.

I think the thing I have against desperate people is that they tend to get into this kinda mind frame of scarcity. So they tend to read too much into friendly interactions, latch onto a person, and then not be able to take no for an answer. :/

To ask if it's wrong to be desperate for a relationship is wrong. Wrong in the fact that YOU THINK that there is something wrong WITH YOU. Going without a relationship is not in any way impossible and you feeling like it's never going to happen or that you NEED this is just down right W-R-O-N-G. You don't need anyone. The person you need to accept and grow with is yourself. I'm speaking in terms if you really feel "Desperate". If you can't step out the door tomorrow and reach out to someone you know, you see, or want to know, and ask them out, or even give them a polite sweet and honest comment then you need to work on how YOU are. Sure there are factors such as they are taken or they aren't interested cause we all know everyone has a type blah blah blah but feeling "des·per·ate ˈdespərit/ adjective: desperate 1. feeling, showing, or involving a hopeless sense that a situation is so bad as to be impossible to deal with." Is something you will never feel if you just stand up and do what you NEED to do.

I dont think its wrong. people have all different kinds of goals. As long as its nothing creepy like collecting 400 human hearts in glasses, its okay