would you date me?

I haven't had much luck with dating for awhile and wondering if its something about me. ok so im 22 my picture is pretty recent im overweight not like crazy but I have a tummy. I have a son and we live with my mom because I watch my grandfather for her so its not an official job yet she pays me some. I share a car with her so I don't get to drive much and im a total dork I can be random at times I like anime manga pokemon games yugioh digimon and the list goes on but you know that already since im on a otaku site. idk if I forgot anything but im just curious as to why I haven't had much luck

Hmm, well, for one, I have a boyfriend already. Putting that aside and assuming that I was single, I'm not sure if I'd be able to date someone with a kid. I'm 18 so that would be a life situation that I am not looking for for a number of years. Also, I tend to look for people that are self sufficient and have similar life goals (and interests of course). No offense, but I don't know if I could date someone that lives with their parents and doesn't have an actual job unless they are going to college. But thats just me. Everyone is different.

your to young for my taste. but in responce to you description of your life... a kid can be ok for some as long as its not a temper tantrum/ throw and break things/ be mean child. (I was raised with parents who used either a belt, the paddle, or wood from the wood pile. it kept me straight and I believe my parents did right by paddling me when I was bad) Yes, your helping out at home but that doesnt mean yyou cant get a part time or full time job when your not needed. It seems a bit lazy, im sorry. I dont mind you live with your parents because that should mean you are able to save money but since you dont have a job that goes out the window.... maybe try and mention your good qualities instead of all the lesser ones.

i was just putting the bad things about me to find out if they are a major influence in not having a date for awhile. also its not that i don't have dreams or goals i do its just i was watching my grandfather for her just while she worked so i could go to college but she got fed up with him being around him that much but i also know when she found out he had to come here or go to a retirement home she was so upset because she grew up with saying he never wanted to be in one of those homes but im rambling sorry basically im gonna end up going back to watching him in the day and going to college at night and eventually move out when i have to transfer to a university. in all honestly id love to be working or in college its just that's my life i end up helping others than me i ended up having to get my ged when i only had two classes left for high school because my grandfather got hurt(his first time when he started going down hill)and ended up watching him for a couple months which made me miss those classes

Maybe it'd be better to focus on yourself first? Self pity is not attractive, you have to fight.. and do your best!! GOOD LUCK!

I agree with the suggestion to focus on yourself. Honestly, that's the first thought I had when I read your post. It sounds like you're juggling a lot already without adding a romantic relationship into the mix

i know why u dont have much luck, you dont seem to have enough confidence, thats all you need, lots of confidence, ask as many girls out that you seem to like, whats the worst they can say? no? its alright to get rejected, just keep trying mah friend :D