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My boyfriend doesn't like talking much in general, but really doesn't like communicating when we have problems. Even after two years of dating he's hiding things, has to be drunk in order to tell me the truth or to talk about problems. Doesn't talk to me at all during the week and on the weekends he's always finding a way to visit late and leave early and he sleeps most of the time. I've assumed cheating, but I'm pretty sure that's not it. I've tried breaking it off only to have him beg me not to leave or he'll say he understands, but will still talk and visit me as normally as normal is for us. Not to mention a few other problems. I often feel that I'm the one working on the relationship and when I stop he gets mad at me. Anytime in general when I say my feelings he gets mad.

I've been wanting to talk to someone about relationship problems, but I feel like I seem desperate or odd for some reason. Like people don't want to talk to me after I say what problems I run into. My partner doesn't like talking, doesn't want to work around problems, just forget them, after years of dating he's still hiding things from me and more.