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squirrelatemycookie

34 year old Male
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squirrelatemycookie
Everything you say is true. And everyone should keep your point in mind. As you stated, no one owes you interaction, and you are correct. Anyone in the dating scene particularly should keep that in mind. But I should clarify the point of this post is not about personal rejection or people not wanting to talk to me. There are plenty of people here I have normal conversations with, no drama or whatever. What I described here is in a small fraction of my personal interactions on this site. But considering the social isolation issues a lot of society has these days, it is an interesting point to touch on. So like if you just didn't reply to a hello message, that is fine. Pretty straight forward declaration of Not Interested In You. I see no issues here. Everyone just moves on. But when someone sends ME a friend request, then they give a response saying they think having a casual conversation is itself a waste of time or an indicator of a ill-fitted person for romantic purposes, that's where something seems a bit off. That is a bit of context perhaps I should have had in my first post. The point is that having conversation and making an effort to talk to people is a pre-requeset to forging friendships or romantics attractions and such. Some people think you can just skip over that part, but no.
yaasshat
about 24 hours ago
Weeeeell... Thing is... It might just be... PERHAPS...Just possibly ... Maaaaaybe... They're not interested in getting to know you? No one is owed a thing and even less online. Don't let it make you forlorn because people reject or neglect your attempts at conversation online. Frustration is a mighty powerful scent.
yaasshat
yaasshat @yaasshat Good. I'm just used to seeing so many complain over the years. Like, I get it, it's tough online.lol
yukachan
Yuka @yukachan left a comment for squirrelatemycookie
about 20 hours ago
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Aight.
squirrelatemycookie
Gives the vibe of Spider-woman being a flower child in the 70s. I approve. XD
wei_ying
Rose Mommy ® @wei_ying The name tag fit really well due to my eldest sister calling me Sunflower XD.
squirrelatemycookie
I do love the Thanksgiving season. A time to try new savory recipes. I am working on a recipie for garlic bread stuffing and low sugar pumpkin spice cheesecake with extra cinnamon. I feel like a mad turkey scientist. XD
squirrelatemycookie
There's something I have been thinking about in regards to dating. This I think applies more to online dating specifically. I think it goes without saying that if you don't talk to people, don't engage in conversation, reply, get to know someone, you won't develop a relationship. From time to time, I've seen profiles or gotten messages saying "I'm not here for fun. Serious relationships only." I engage in basic conversation like "How is your day, tell me about your hobbies and goals, got any fun trips or holiday plans, ect." Just normal conversation pieces. But the responses is "I'm not interested in making Internet friends. I'm looking for a husband." ...Ok. I respect your focus on that goal. But how are you going to meet your future spouse if you deem attempting basic conversation with you as a turnoff and immediately shut down interaction? You will literally meet and get to know nobody, thus no relationship will develop. Am I missing something? Am I weird for thinking you have to talk to people and get to know them to develop a relationship with them? Or is there some part of this process that skips this I am not aknowledging is a thing now?
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