squirrelatemycookie

Sweet slippery snow sleds, it has been cold lately. It is supposed to get below 30 in my area tonight. Gonna need some piping hot cocoa after work tonight. Should probably become a blanket burrito too.

Everything you say is true. And everyone should keep your point in mind. As you stated, no one owes you interaction, and you are correct. Anyone in the dating scene particularly should keep that in mind. But I should clarify the point of this post is not about personal rejection or people not wanting to talk to me. There are plenty of people here I have normal conversations with, no drama or whatever. What I described here is in a small fraction of my personal interactions on this site. But considering the social isolation issues a lot of society has these days, it is an interesting point to touch on. So like if you just didn't reply to a hello message, that is fine. Pretty straight forward declaration of Not Interested In You. I see no issues here. Everyone just moves on. But when someone sends ME a friend request, then they give a response saying they think having a casual conversation is itself a waste of time or an indicator of a ill-fitted person for romantic purposes, that's where something seems a bit off. That is a bit of context perhaps I should have had in my first post. The point is that having conversation and making an effort to talk to people is a pre-requeset to forging friendships or romantics attractions and such. Some people think you can just skip over that part, but no.