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louis12345

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louis12345
Fair point. I probably should have tried dating earlier, but i kept putting it off. I'll be looking into these monk robes.
rokas15
Unfortunately every single dating site/app is statistically cursed from the get-go unless you are extremely above average looking and/or have extremely above average finances and this goes for both men and women (I believe the statistic is something like 80% of users are competing for the top 20% of the dating pool of the opposite gender) Obviously people get lucky, and how bad the odds are goes down the more active people there are on a given app but in general looking for positive results is a fools errand. Your best bet is to cast as wide a net as possible (i.e. just use multiple apps/sites when you can) and put yourself out there. If you have a free minute, go participate in some random thread and you never know right? Otherwise just keep your expectations realistic and consider investing in some monk robes
louis12345
Yeah, I tried Bumble because it worked for a friend. But i noticed that appart from the first week when your account is new, almost noone sees you if you are not a paying user. I got all my likes in that timeframe and none after. And its too hard to find people who liked you, if you dislike them they dissapear from the list, but seeing that there is one still there it means i havent found her. And idk, its just disheartening because i dont see people who share my interest in anime on there. But when i do, they sadly are either a smoker, drinker or user of weed and most likely a combination of all. I cant be with someone like that. So idk, i guess my preferences are a bit hard to match :(
arc
Nov 13, 24 at 7:29pm
Honestly I think it's not just Maiotaku that has had way less traffic. I think it's a lot of dating forums and websites. I might have met someone I married from this site, but that was back in the golden era. I honestly don't know where Gen Z people are going to date. I'm guessing they've mostly moved to exclusively dating apps.
arc
Arc @arc yeah, with anime fans drinking is pretty common. You might have to at least make some concessions there to have better chances. Maybe you have some other interests or hobbies that have a bigger pool of women in dating apps. I wish I could help you more, but the dating game is constantly evolving and it's been a while since I was in my harem days.
louis12345
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Finally i can share some funny panels ive found while reading anime/manga. Source: the egg of the elves/the balls of the elves (if i remember correctly)
louis12345
Yeah, I tried Bumble because it worked for a friend. I noticed that if you are not a free user, people will only see you when your account is new. Otherwise i would have continued to get likes after that period was over. Also it is extremely hard to find users who have liked you, i know this cuz if you dislike them they dissapear but otherwise they stay in the list. I wanted to try this site, because i saw it in a video talking about anime dating sites but also because i felt like there is such a small amount of anime enjoyers on bumble. And those i saw, while im sure they are great in there own right, smoked, drank alcohol or used drugs. I cant be with someone like that. So, idk guess my preferences are a bit hard to match :(