Confessions

Word. Sex is a base desire that doesn't necessarily need emotions, it's just sometimes better with emotions. Then sometimes it's also better without emotions. Sometimes you just want to be drilled hard and not have to worry about cuddling afterward or pillow talk. ^_^

@Panda/veru I agree with both of you.

@Panda What I described is virtually impossible for me. When my ex and I got back together I didn't just go ahead and have sex with her again. Didn't just start making love again either. I'm glad I didn't, because while she was waiting to see if we could become something more serious, she was still having sex with two guys and doing her screaning process on two others. She kept telling me that sex wasn't important, but her actions denied that in every possible way. I should just be flattered that I'm one of the two guys she ever made love with and not one of the God knows how many she just had sex with

well look at it this way i have had offers to from previous gfs annnd still kicking it as a virgin. im a really hard person to be with sooo if you can stick around for a while then your def the one. no one has survived 4 months

@sanfi sounds like a situation with a girl i was with XD said sex wasnt important and she didnt care about it buuuut its all she could talk about

Virgins and non-virgins have different perspectives. Every virgin thinks the one they finally chose will "last" and be true love. I'm just getting to the point of hopefully finding someone I care about enough to marry so I can bail out of the dating scene before I die of old age.

@Panda My first gf and I were together for 4 months and 4 days, so I guess I trumped you xD My second girlfriend and I were together for two months when I first slept with her. She'd had a 28 yo boyfriend of two years before she met me, so that was rather intimidating, but we were truly on one line. We'd been through similar stuff and we liked the same books etc. She felt like my soulmate. After the first time I slept with her everything changed. Suddenly, it wasn't about us anymore, but about my body and her body. At first that was nice: exploring a new world, but eventually 'us' started disappearing and eventually 'making love' turned into 'having sex'. She didn't even let me kiss her anymore. That's when I broke up with her. That was about two weeks after I fist slept with her.

@themerc, I never got the point of one night stands. If I like having sex with someone then I want to have sex with them again and again and again....