Confessions

i confess my avatar is spot on how my mental state is after coming back from seeing family for a week. its all good, 2020 will be a good year.

@r31n Well I have been there feeling like that, and I will tell you brother what I learned. What women really look at (besides the first glance which is physical) is if the person's personality is appealing to them. You can be charming, witty, funny, weird, and a neet even. Just as long as you are not afraid of being yourself. Someone will look at you and check you out at first. Even if your looks are not that much (me lowkey >.>) they will gravitate to you because of who you are, and want to get to know you. Do not jump the gun and assume they want a relationship. Seek out friendship first and if it feels right overtime ask them how they feel about you as a person. I didn't understand how this worked for years and years assuming there was nothing special about me to women. However, I was proven wrong as I got older and more vocal with my personality. It will not be an instantaneous solution, and will take time. You got this! >:D https://media.tenor.com/images/6da7bfe4cb3ed5dc269ea9795b1ee9ca/tenor.gif

Thanks for saying. I never aimed at relationships before really. I would be happy to just have a friend who is a girl to talk about stuff that my guy friends are not comfortable with. But they mostly don't want to be friends with me because I have a lot guy buddies. TwT