Confessions

Gotta wonder if I spoke to my friends now ex about what he told me months ago, they'd be together rather than going thru a shit storm... Well, can't really say they're both going thru a shit storm. I mean, he took a giant shit on everything by cheating... I know I should be a friend, but it's hard to want to or be able to trust a person, even though it's not like anything was done to me ((Except for giving me huge hints on current events .months ago, which on a certain level, makes me feel just a touch bad for not speaking up...)). To late to tell her about things saud in the past, I suppose... Still not sure why people I've known always want to confide in me personal info that they won't tell anyone else. I just hope above all, their kids are taken care of.

i confess its funny when people with normal families try and talk about reconciling with family >w> "she is your sister, and someday youll realize how important she is. shes your blood" family isnt blood, family is a bond, and some people are just bad its just how they are and if you accept it, dont try and push things, then things will be easier

Family or not, they are still perfectly capable of screwing you over and ruining your life for their own selfishness. Family can be just as toxic as anyone else, and sometimes its in your best interest to just stay away from them...

Teacup, I ended up telling her (albeit a bit late) and it's all good. It's just a bit disheartening to see/know a couple who were together for almost a decade, have three great kids and seemingly from outward appearances had a great family dynamic, fail. I know they'll take care of their kids just fine, it's that it changes how one views people, is all. I don't think people who cheat realize just how far reaching the consequences really are. I honestly feel like they'll try to reconcile and I know they've both been thru a lot of shit together thru almost ten years. There is one thing, I will not take sides, but I will remain there for both, I am still a friend after all.

I have two confessions Confession 1: I confess I haven't been on this site in awhile becasue I been dealing with some personal isssues Confession 2: I am afraid to ask out a co worker in fear I would lose my job