Confessions

They are probably just lazy and don't want to put forth the effort, or at least in my experience that's how its been. Heh, they always seem to come crawling back to me and want to hook up. I always tell them no because if they thought I was so amazing then they shouldn't have just dumped me like I was nothing. Actions speak louder than words and if your actions tell me that you don't value me as much as you say you do..I'll drop you from my life entirely. I can be pretty cold at times, but life has taught me that you can't make everyone happy when you aren't happy yourself.

I thought giving a massage would be a lot harder than it was. I just told them to tell me when to go harder and stuff like that and they seem to enjoy it so either I was good or they lied xD In the end I don't really care as long as they got some enjoyment and relief

@Muffin-Senpai I think that lies within the realm of making the person you like/love happy :). I'm sure a lot of guys would love to give the girl they like/love massages without it leading to more, myself included lol. XD Like where are these guys giving us a bad rep? Honestly lol. @Fatalis I see :/, well they're completely lame, and good on you for not taking them back. Its not cold, its pretty logical honestly. I've had someone break up with me once (wanted to be friends and I understood), then that very night I got a message from "some guy" pretending to be her, insulting me and stuff. I didn't buy it, and when the next morning came around I told her and she said "well you shouldn't have thought it was me" because I was convinced initially. I told her (or it could have been the guy she was seeing) "what a scumbag huh?" I basically wanted to see if it was him so I insulted him, and if it wasn't I still get to voice my opinion. Then she says "goodbye, have a nice life" and I'm like "good riddance." About a month later I receive a gift from her that says "your friend always." Lol, maybe too much info, but I just wanted to say I know where you're coming from, I'll never be that person's anything.

I always hate it when they do that. I have never been able to be friends with any of my exes. It mostly ends with a, "Fuck you" and I just reply with, "Well fuck you too then asshole."

Sometimes when you try to talk to people who are really depressed it's like talking to a rock and it's like you don't even feel your friends yet they get offended when you say something like that lol

Yep. Or they are just trying to be "nice" by going the friend route, but then they ignore you by never talking to you unless they need something. xD

Yeah and sometimes I feel like they actually believe that the way they are acting is like friends and if you try and bring it up then you're just being weird because you dated once lol