cheaters

to the woman out there, have u been cheated on? how did it affect u and how did u get over it? to the men have u ever cheated on a girl? if so y? if not y do u think some men cant keep it in there pants? (or to sound better cant keep there eye on the prize)

Had a girl cheat on me back in high school near the end of the relationship, never found out until after we broke up. I don't know hte reason why but that was back then. Reason why people cheat is probably a variety, they are bored, they found someone better, they aren't getting enough attention or sexual pleasure, etc.

I've been cheated on. Actually it was three months ago before today. I'm still confused to this day because the two of them aren't even together. But whatever. I don't feel too bitter about it I just wish it had ended better. In another case a friend of mine was cheated on and the girl who cheated on him is another friend of mine. When I asked her why she did it she simply replied with "Sometimes, it's justified." What do you guys think? Can cheating ever be justified? How? Or can it be plainly labeled a mortal sin?

I have been cheated on many times before most of the times the guy didn't even justify it. Some of the justifications I got were stuff like I'm not feeling it any more or you feel like a sister to me. I always wondered why they didn't just break things off before they cheated. I eventually got over but it took some time because I couldn't understand why they didn't break it off before cheating or if they wanted to use cheating to justify breaking off the relationship. Cheating is a problem that I have never had when I dated girls why this is I honestly don't know. I'll be honest I don't think cheating is ever justified. I think before someone cheats they should end their current relationship so the other person isn't left with a lot questions in the end. Since most of the cheating I've experienced was never justified I always wondered why they did, who they cheated with, or even if they were cheating the whole relationship.

I don't believe I've been cheated on in my one meaningful relationship but she was and is a giant flirt so I could be wrong. She was a virgin at the time too so I just think it was flirting. I have never cheated.

ugh I hate a flirty other half, that's a break upable offense interesting to see that some of u guys have been cheated on, saw a study that 30% of woman cheat and 80% of men (gross statistics) and I think once a cheater always a cheater, its like lying, u get away with it once and it just becomes easier.