Unhappy in Relationships

No one wants to walk on egg shells in a relationship. IMO it hardly seems worth bothering because the issues can not just be on you. She is making you unhappy as well and to put a time limit on fixing things like that seems pretty heartless if you ask me... I would put your own happiness first, she is making you miserable and no one deserves that crap.

Relationships are all about balance and fairness. You need to make sure you aren't bending to her will and letting her rule the relationship, but at the same time you need to be receptive to her needs. Back off some and maybe its time to let her go. Ultimatums are never a good sign.

I am going to do END GAME tomorrow, we plan to hangout and then at the end I am literally going to ask her do you want to make this work because I ain't going to put in effort now if you are just going to break up with me a week later.

whooooaa i just read everything good luck dude...this is why i can't handle women very well XD. If she comes up with any other absolutes she isn't thinking about you at all in the relationship...it's just not worth it

After reading all the previous posts, I'd say that you should stop trying to make it work. Granted, she obviously means something to (hence why you are willing to work it out) but don't let her dominate who you are. Trust me when I say that you should end it now before things spiral even further out of control. Keep us posted on how things go for you!

Good luck panda with everything! Your sweet and deserve to be happy. By putting a limit is saying "its all your fault now fix it but I wont help" I'm here if you need me inbox me when those get fixed.

I know everyone is wondering what happened but here is an update, Monday we had a good time hanging out but at certain times I felt unhappy still and I tried holding her hand as we walked down the port getting ice cream and stuff but she didn't want to. Overall she said she had fun/etc but I am more mixed. We are still technically together since we decided to bump up her date decided to break up or be with me by next Weds. I actually also had to go to the Hospital during my work. I think its too much Anxiety from everything including that but I want to make sure its not something like a Diabetic reaction since my family is known for being diabetics. I will update everyone on how it goes. And believe me I am trying to be happy.