Becoming cold.......

For some reason recently I felt like I'm becoming cold and not too welcoming of new ppl as of late, best way put I think I'm beginning to develop some sort of unfound hatred for humanity. I don't see this as a good thing at all. Recently I've been refusing to sign on to skype after getting someone's skype recently, not to mention me not responding to comments and messages sometimes. I really don't want to be a hateful person I'm actually a VERY nice guy. But I can't be nice if I'm hateful or cold towards ppl. Any pointers to prevent me from become a human hater?

Oh that's a tough one. Never been there myself. While I am not codependant I genuinely enjoy being with folks. Maybe a group atmosphere to take pressure off you being the only focus. Like in skype maybe be in a group chat. Or maybe just try chattin in a place like this. I am not sure if it helps but is all I can really think of right now.

Oh that's a tough one. Never been there myself. While I am not codependant I genuinely enjoy being with folks. Maybe a group atmosphere to take pressure off you being the only focus. Like in skype maybe be in a group chat. Or maybe just try chattin in a place like this. I am not sure if it helps but is all I can really think of right now.

^ you can do a group chat on skype? I never knew that. TBH I'm a total noob with Skype. Alright I'll try at least. Thanks.

the fact that you thought you were being cold and want to fix it basicly already says you aren't realy a human hater you could also just see it as being truthful to yourself most Ppl are selfish and with that sometimes you dont respond because your not in the mood right now or say things Ppl don't want to hear a lot of times being truthful is a thing the opposit party can't handle witch in turn makes you seem cold hartedthat being said i personaly think the problem is with the person that complains about you behavior because they read to much in to it and jumped to conclusions instead of asking if there was something wrong and leave it at that

working retail severely deteriorated my tolerance for people, but honestly sometimes people just aren't in the mood to deal with other people. That's not an unnatural feeling, everyone gets periods of that from time to time

Wow admitting it was very brave of you and I meant that. Hmm admitting to a "fault" means you want to fix it. I think everybody is like that but how you show it can be a big factor. But it also isn't good to keep it I so talking about it is a good idea too. When I feel like this I listen to happy music or watch or read about good human accomplishments idk makes me feel warmer. And the not responding to ppl this g it happens sometimes we are just too busy or tired with life to have time for others its natural :)