This site...

Im sure some people have had some success, but with all the active users being so spread out, its kinda tough to find someone local.

true i guess....wood really like to hear about the successes though, seems like this site is just some lame lil forum place...excuse me im abit bitter XP

They need a new forum lay out. These colors are boring :( Pretty forums with custom sigs and such are way more attractive and fun to chat on.

Advertising would be a bit nice. Not here, I mean getting the word out about the site. ANN or something, letting people know there's a nice, friendly otaku dating site. I only found the place through sheer luck, ya know? Don't get me wrong though. Dating aside, I like having someplace I can go to talk about this stuff that doesn't sound snobbish or flamed. I joined two major forums for anime, and in both places it was a bit cold.