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Independent women

masuji
Dec 10, 12 at 6:27pm
Who here likes a woman with a strong, independent personality? I'm a guy who can appreciate that, I want a partner who isn't going to be clingy or dependent on me everyday, I expect my own life as well as hers to go on if we begin dating, and I'm a guy to take things reasonably slow, so no, I won't recommend moving in in the first 6 months to 2 years, unless it works out in a way, because you have to get to know a person before you let them into your life like that. This doesn't mean I won't accommodate my situation or her situation, but, simply put, I don't like submissive women. When someone cannot live on their own for a good period of time, thats not a good sign for me, at all.
simonsanbr
Dec 10, 12 at 6:35pm
I dont mind a degree of clingyness, its cute to me, but too much can be a bit off putting. Im as easy going a guy as they come but sometimes I do like my own space.
masuji
Dec 10, 12 at 6:41pm
I'm not for immature women, if a woman can't stand on her own I kind of get turned off.
animecountryboy
I like a combination of independent at times, but just wanting to be held at other times.
momoichi
Dec 10, 12 at 7:30pm
nope, i like clingy. i may just be insecure but i think it shows the care alot plus im super clingy so id be a hipicrate if i liked m parterner to be independant xD
kitsunerena
I'm the type that can be independent for the majority of the time, but I can be emotionally needy at others. I do enjoy being close to whoever I'm dating but some space is needed at times too so it doesn't get too claustrophobic. I do like some immaturity in the relationship so it can kinda be casual at times or just laugh and be stupid (just not constant immaturity to where nothing is taken seriously).
meowkittycat
Dec 10, 12 at 8:02pm
I believe this is true. Everyone needs to be able to live their own lives. I live by myself, go to school full time, and i'm out here on my own. Of course I've been single for a year and 4 months, yet I do feel that I need emotional support from at times. It's nice to have it from friends or family members when I go visit them, but in a different way I mean. I don't depend on others. I prefer doing things myself, so that at least it gets done right. One can be independent, but there is nothing wrong with needing another.
masuji
Dec 10, 12 at 8:26pm
I didn't really mean clingy or that I can't offer emotional support. I mean that I am not possessive of people, at all. I can't be the dominate force in another person's life, I'm always the person who is there, but by the choice of the person, not by my own choice.
atticuselias
Single independent lawyer woman that don't need no man. What a great show.
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