To all of my lovely male otakus~

This is true, however you're also excluding the women that do the exact same thing. There are women that whine and complain about how they don't have their "perfect man" or "husbando", which is just as annoying as men who whine and complain about their lack of "ideal girl". Or whatever gender they prefer. I guess what I'm trying to say is, look at both sides of the coin. Singling out one side while the other commits the same crime, and not recognizing it, is bias.

there are allot of Dream girls on this site and others. its just that they either ignore me are never on or are flooded with a ton of guys and i feel like just another face in the crowd.

i agree with every detail chibi said except for the be happy she 's already willing to talk to me because pretty much nobody expects a women to be happy she's being talked to so it sound a bit like a double standard i believe in emancipation witch means to me we should be treated equaly (except for the man should not fight or hit a woman)with that bieng said i don't think your wrong you are one of the people that make the most sense to me right now

Ah, that is true. Phrased like that makes it sound as if its looking down on the men. Although I'm pretty sure that's not how it was intended. Both us females and males have a tendency to talk about that "perfect" somebody, but perfection is another thing that is in the eyes of the beholder.

The dream and ideal partner threads came up as a means of expressing what each user that made one was looking for. The main thing to focus on when discussing these is the part of the title or description that includes words such as "dream" and "ideal". Doesn't mean that is the only thing they will accept and want, just some points of interest that the person is looking for in a partner. I think we all realize no one is perfect to our specifications but in order to get along some things need to match up (in what order of importance, I wouldn't know since it's a very personalized issue for each individual). Calling out the men only is very biased since several girls, including myself, made such threads as well. Also not all things are to be taken literally.

I take offense to you saying guys should just be glad any girl is willing to talk to us...fuck that. I don't care if anyone talks to me...maybe you should lose that stuck up attitude.

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@ OP You know I'm pretty irritated with the you directing this towards all the males of the site, whereas some of the girls have done the same, and yet you didn't call them out,furthermore not every single male on this site was whining about not meeting their perfect girl(Myself included) that's called sexism and discrimination and it makes you look ignorant, if you say, to some of you otaku males and females then it would not be much of an issue but the very fact all is in the OP pretty much tells me that your wanting to call out the guys just because they had their standards for their ideal girl set up, that you don't meet. Think before making another nonsensical topic like this in the future please or I'll see to it, you deal with the Webmaster himself, since the report button is there.