Flirting.

@Masuji Haha I'm not much for fancy suits, but I've never been on a "real date" before so whatever. It's great that you seem to be forward and honest about things as well. Honesty is nice as long as it doesn't hurt anyone. @Simon It's not always good to be forward about things... People consider me an enemy fast... I say it like that because I don't think of anyone as an "enemy"... In fact I just don't like wasting my time. I have a lot of goals in life and I waste it enough on my own without others help xD

It depends on your tact. I prefer to know what page Im on with people, intentions or otherwise. Im not big into time wasting either.

I didn't think people here flirt with more than one person at once. Everyone here I think is just being friendly. Is not like many on here actually go steady. I also don't think is wrong for someone to get to know someone better. After all you have to know someone before making a decision on whether or not it will work. Remember that show where people would date as a group and compete for the guy or girl. I don't think there's anything wrong with that. In the end as long as there's nothing official people are free to explore and date. Once you dated a couple of times as in more than once than you need to start focusing on that person only and try to make things work. Otherwise risk and fear jealousy from them.

The only show I could think of that did that was Flava' Flave, and that automatically makes me want to shoot myself just thinking about it. ...And now that will be stuck in my head all night.

Wasn't that one. Lol I think it was on mtv. My sister watched it and when I was bored I sit and look at it. Until I realise it and then be like what hell am i watching. Lol

I understand what your saying and it is hard for people to go just towards one person but when there is true feeling why go talk to others and just make her your priority. Try to show her how important and special she is to you instead of talking to a couple and ending up with none. Or a worse case scenario that 3 out of the 5 like you so they date you now what are you going to do?? stuck with a hard choice because somebody is going to end up getting hurt... Finding love is hard but you got to do it at a slow pace instead of charging at every girl you see!! You can like a person but to love a person is something else and most people don't understand that until they go thru it them self's.

I completely agree with you there is just that on here is not that serious people here aren't all looking for partners. Most are just being pals and friends. When they want more they talk outside the site. Is what I am trying to get it. Maybe I am explaining it all wrong ^^` also is not like you can have true feelings for someone you just met. People look at it like you'll just settle for anything you know. It takes away the feeling special factor.

I've pretty much given up on finding anyone on this site...so I talk to everyone as potential friends. The whole thing about seeing other ppl's convos in main bugs me a bit...it threw me off when I still had faith in this site, seeing all the competition I had for any particular interest made me feel like "wth do I have to offer that any of these smucks couldn't do or better" v.v

^ Major respect there. Charging like a bull in a china shop. -if anyone gets the reference, then I love you. Not LOVE you but love you. Brah.

I agree with Endless that most people on this site use it to make friends more than looking for a serious relationship. I do think that if you are serious about someone on this site then you should take it off the site to FB or Yahoo or whatever you use. It seems like more than a few people have an issue with everyone being able to see your convos on the main page. Maybe we can bring this to an admins attention so they can address the issue. I definitely think there's a point at which there can be too much flirting. It's much easier to tell when you've reached that point in person than over the internet though. So I think it's best to be straightforward when you've reached that point of feeling uncomfortable.