why its so hard to find the perfect girl

i mean im not looking for a hot super model no im just looking for a girl who is into anime like me and have a wonderful personality...why cant i find the girl :/

Awwww don't give up... it takes time. I'll be honest us ladies can be difficult sometimes so you just have to be patient and one day before you realize it... what you have been waiting for might just happen.

there is no mythical creature Marhsy trust me my man-whore of a brother would have found and done her by now... sadly. Sucks to lower expectations but compromise is what makes us adults.. so stay young and adolescent ... its a better world that way... wish i had never grown up either *grumbles*

Cause what we call perfect is a dream there will never be someone with everything we want in a person. But that doesn't mean the likely hood of finding a person with most is impossible. I myself believe there is someone for everyone even Hitler had a girlfriend.

In my experience I been rejected every time. The first time nothing happened. The second time the girl had no dream or vision of her future. She showed passion and desire for me. But she eventually cheated on me. Didn't help that those were my expectations it eventually cause things to fall apart. The third time the girl had vision and dreams but she was in pieces and helping her turn me into her friend more than anything. Which is fine. She never showed any passion or desire for me. Life is like that so you move on and smile to the next venture. You are best chasing after the things you like and if a girl that's interested runs into your path give her a shot. Don't bother clinging to emotions towards someone that doesn't care for you. Is not worth it. At times it may hurt at times it may even hurt like hell but always overcome it. Never let life take you down. Push forward and keep moving.

Well, I don't think any girl is "perfect" as far as the stringent definition goes, but as far as finding a relationship goes, you just have to put yourself out there. Go places where girls you feel you can click with are. Join clubs, go to conventions, volunteer in your down time, etc. Online works occasionally too, but a lot of the time you have to put yourself out there and can't rely on others or friends of a friend to help you find someone.

In the interim, I'm always a big fan of self-improvement. Put down the video game controller or get out from in front of the TV and go walk for a half hour each day. Eat a little better and avoid crap like candy and soda when possible. Drink water or juice and have a piece of fruit instead. Improving your self worth can go a long way in improving your confidence and in turn will help you better in finding a relationship. I know it's easier said than done, but starting out with little steps leads to bigger and better things even if takes awhile.

it's definitely important to put yourself out there in real life. if people know you're looking you might found out theyre interested.