Questions, Answers

There can be a lot of risk taking and sacrifices when it comes to the heat of battle in that field called love. Depending on how that person is and how she/he takes things will determine if the outcome will end horribly or way you expect and hope for it to be. Consequences and Reaction to action is what we all fear most since it can be unpredictable to about a good 70-80% of us (i.e. telling that one person you like/love them, or even breaking it off with them) you just dont know how it will affect them, thus affecting you, your judgement and how they or other people might view you. Those with weak constitution lay victim to their own weakness by the consequences of their decision making, on the other hand, with a stronger sense of maturity those other people can take what's thrown at them with a strong sense of understanding and firm decision thought process. Well in the end, to make things shorter and easier to understand. When it comes all down to it, the decision you make shold be the one best made, over the other person takes it is up to them, but can YOU handle how they take it and just get on with life? In a simple sense, move on. I think I talk too much nonsense ._.;;

honestly i think thats a point well made i dont think its nonsence just that love is so complex now that it, in essence, has become nonsence, people dont know what they want and when it come to it some would rather go with what somone else wants untill it doesnt suit them and thats when heartbreak occours, in all i think people should do what they, themselves want and everyone else should accept that ... life i think would be easier ... maybe ...

honestly i think thats a point well made i dont think its nonsence just that love is so complex now that it, in essence, has become nonsence, people dont know what they want and when it come to it some would rather go with what somone else wants untill it doesnt suit them and thats when heartbreak occours, in all i think people should do what they, themselves want and everyone else should accept that ... life i think would be easier ... maybe ...

Heh... Read some nice advice from Kakachi Draken about shyness. I gotta try that. Just gotta jump in and start talking. Just act the way I do around the friends I know well.

hey i need some advice with shyness> i mean i can be outgoing and all but with my friends they always get the attention and im like in the background so all the guys go to them! =(

Hm... Well, if you are talking, when you gotta end the conversation just ask for their e-mail or phone number on the grounds of continuing to talk and be friendly at a later time. That seems like the easiest way to get contact info in my opinion.

The best way to ask for a way to contact them with the lowest possibility of rejection is this old trick. First when the conversation is dying down and you two are about to part ways, you pull out your wallet, take out a piece of paper(make sure it looks professional. Then ask "what is the best way to contact you Cell or Email. There is no possible no. Unless you two hit it off great this should help.

Hm... Not sure what to ask. My current situation is rather complex. I like her, she feels that I am more than just a friend. But she wants to prove to herself that she can live without a guy for a while. Her boyfriend dumped her around Christmas and she's almost completely over him now. But she still doesn't want to start dating yet. I've tried various things but she's pretty set on the idea. So, I really care about her and want to be with her, but she's not ready to start dating yet... What now? I'm trying to be patient because I feel that this might actually be love and she is the first person who has ever told me that they wanted me... But it's really hard and I'm just getting more and more depressed which is interfering with my attempts to get a job. -_-

If she wants to be independent let it be, because if you want to show that you are going to be there for her in the hardest of times you need to show that you can also understand. If she is not ready give it some time, be there for her with out making it a relationship. if she said she wants you give it time. Thats my opinion though