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Trying to solve the mystery of why there are so few women looking for dates

hakutaku
When people ask me questions like what do you do?/where are you from?I constantly answer "I live a life"/"I'm from Earth", they think I troll them and stop replying...*shrugs
hakutaku
Also some guys complain about not getting a reply after some messages, that's probably because she/he doesn't know how to continue the conversation~Social awkwardness isn't limited by gender. Nothing comes out of a dry conversation about personal information.
rainx
I will say there are good guys on this site that want a relationship even if they do tend to get overshadowed by the negative experiences girls have getting DMs from the not so great side of the coin. I get the socially awkward side for many but conversations are a two way street. If it gets to the point where it just feels like I'm interviewing you and/or just getting a bunch of one or two word responses back it doesn't take much for someone to lose interest in that conversation after awhile. If you're genuinely interested in someone make a bit more of an effort to ask them about their lives, goals, interests, etc. It's not hard to keep your chat partner engaged.
cac
I know I can be very hard to talk to, very few people are able to bring a good conversation out of me. I always feel bad when I just don't know what to say.
hakutaku
Don't ask them questions about their dreams, hobbies, interests, lives if they have written those on their bios...Ask the details, details, details.
hiretsunaotaku
I had this weird experience once. Some girl 2 years my senior randomly told me that I was "too thin to flirt on"
hiretsunaotaku
Most of the time I end up talking with the 2-replies-then-ghosted. When I do find someone who doesn't do that and I start to think that there may be something possible, guess what. I become the last-resort chatting buddy. So I prefer not to interact with anyone instead of interacting with someone who only remembers me when they have nothing to do.
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