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Native VS. Interracial

meisterman1985
Which do you prefer and why? I prefer interracial with Japanese women. If not, be permanently single. American women are usually same old same old and too shallow. My heart tells me so. And my Japanese language skills are improving!
yaasshat
Sounds like a fetish. You say "American women are usually same old same old and shallow."? Isn't it kind of shallow to only focus on one ethnicity due to preconceived notions? Technically, that's a little bigoted. Also, how do you know what "MOST" American women are like? Have you met most? Is being shallow an American thing?
hell_hound7
Honestly yeah american women are pretty shallow compared to women in some parts of asia that prioritize marriage and family. The people themselves arent exactly to blame tho its the culture. That isnt to say not all places have women that arent shallow. Its just more prevalent here. I have dated american women as well as women outside america to include asia. There are still cheaters and liars and all that everywhere else. But the culture is the big difference between here and there.
yaasshat
Thing is, there isn't one unified American culture. There isn't one ethnicity or group. It's kind of being shallow by snubbing "most" American women because you have some sort of fetish. I say fetish since op had to throw out how his Japanese language skills are improving, kind of like that's the reason he chose to learn. That's shallow and a bit willfully ignorant. I've come across to many different kinds of "American women" to just be jaded and say most are this or that way. Ask yourself, if most American women are a certain way, don't you think you're "most" likely flawed and seen as such?
miarin
Nov 25, 20 at 8:09am
Surely not all American women are shallow, there are shallow women in asia too
hell_hound7
In my case there is no fetish, i dont prefer asian women any more than any other woman. Its just pure observation not even just personal experience but things observed through an outsider's perspective. Me being jaded has nothing to do with anything cuz i would still date american women. Im just pointing out how shallow they can sometimes be. while not all of them are, its more common to see it here than other places such as latin america and asia and sometimes even europe. Places known for devoted women and women who are very family driven, opposed to going after who has the most money, best looks, and biggest sex appeal. Again not all American women are this way but from observation its clear as day alot of them are.
yaasshat
End of story, by default, you look down on most American women.
meisterman1985
@yaasshat I'm studying Japanese language for more reasons than that. Most women follow trends I don't understand. I'm one of them very rare ones that prefer to be different from the majority of our society. I tried to be like typical people, but my mother's side of the family who are like historians and history makers make me do better things than what most people do. Even my heart tells me things to avoid and things to follow. I believe in myself even if others don't. My mother asked me why not Japanese-Americans? They will still have similar behavior to American women by swapping the feminine laugh with horse laugh. She and a Mexican restaurant employee said Mexican women, unlike American women, don't worry about their husbands coming home late. People keep telling me things like "There's bad people everywhere!", "It don't matter what country they are from!", and "You don't have to be married to be happy!" I was deeply overprotected by parents. I refuse to have weddings due to unwanted disturbing reactions from family.
hell_hound7
Ok, if thats what you gathered from what i said.
yaasshat
Clarify. ", opposed to going after who has the most money, best looks, and biggest sex appeal. Again not all American women are this way but from observation its clear as day alot of them are." I wouldn't call that looking at "a lot" as equal or worthy.
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