What kind of person do you hate?

And are you able to remain friends with them? See I'm making this thread in order to vent about a certain person. This isn't the only type of person that gets under my skin, but lets just say that she does it very effectively. I have this co-worker/friend who is a contrarian. That is to say, she doesn't go against every.single.thing I say, but she does it so often that it would seem this type of description would fit. It would seem that anything I say, she tries tears it apart in any way that she could negate what I have said. I haven't seen her in person since quarantine happened, but I've held this opinion of her for at least a couple of years now and our friendship has suffered for it. She is a very attention-centric, opinionated person. The type that tries to lead her a group rather than casually hanging out. The person that people gravitate towards, even if they can't find bonds with each other, they have that one friend in common, and that's her. She can be fun at times. But the fact that she is treating me like a frenemy and trying to undermine any opinion I have really fucking irks me. *********************************************************************************** 11/16/2020 EDIT: Also, after seeing the responses this thread garnered, I wish I could retitle the thread. I thought by explaining my own situation that people would see further than just the word hate/hatred. Notice that the person in particular I spoke about when starting is a friend. She just gets under my skin sometimes because she does things I do not like or agree with, regardless, SHE IS STILL MY FRIEND. My struggle is dealing with the problems I have with her while still maintaining a balance that lets our relationship grow, or at the very least just exist. Intention: that this thread would be proactive Results: pretty negative shit, I didn't think it through enough really... just venting when I made it. Epilogue - My hopes are that people will read through the thread before responding that they hate furries, otherkin, or tiny pink elephants. That we can now identify the things we hate, recognize why we hate them, and change ourselves since that's all we have power over. TL;DR version - Don't be a dick.

I don't think I "hate" anyone or any types of people. I just don't feel that strongly about anyone. I'd certainly say there are people who I prefer to avoid and not interact with, and people who seem very misguided in their self destructive life styles, which I think is more sad than anger inducing. I suppose if anything it does bother me to see and hear of narcissistic people who don't bat an eye at being a bother to those around them. Many of which seem to actually enjoy putting others down. They're all too common and don't seem to care about how hard they make life for others, even themselves. I see it all the time, day after day, and no one seems to care. People just seem to get used to it, and from there start to do it themselves. Trying to convince them to change their ways can feel like a waste of time too, due to a culture around here that encourages selfish behavior. As much as I wish I could help, sometimes these people are too far gone to ever change and as such it's best to just avoid them or ignore them.

Someone who's extremely narcissistic, never takes responsibility, always blames others, and who thinks they're never wrong