Why are you single?

@acacia12 was Gangsta baby really that toxic or was it someone else personally? Ngl ive only had bad experiences with the dating aspects here and I fully stand with your opinion.

Not so much that Gangsta was any more toxic than anyone else, she's actually kinda fun in real life, she just had an unhealthy need to 'keep' everyone if that makes sense. But through her I got to see pretty much everyone's gossip and sneaky business through screenshots. It was not pretty. I find it hard to remember the specifics but i remember the vibes and the BIG ONES.

Also I think she's doing well. last I heard was last year she was in Barcelona with a pretty cool set up. (Was that doxing? I feel like Barcelona is big enough for this not to be doxxing)

I'm just not easy to date. I am in the lucky position where nobody ever has broken up with me or broken my heart (as I was an emotionally uninvolved asshole tbh) but it does not fix my communication issues. I am working on it and am proud to say I am at a pretty good place now and actually ready to look for someone. It has been a while. I wish everyone on here struggling the best of luck. It is hard but you all deserve love and care. Good luck. :)

I think this is mainly because I hold traditional values. While I am looking for something serious and genuine, many people just want something casual. What makes the search even more difficult these days is the fact that many are no longer willing to put effort into a relationship, and "love" has become something superficial without depth. People tend to focus more on appearances and what they themselves possess, rather than on who the person is on the inside. Of course, physical appearance matters too, but fundamentally, character has taken a back seat.

Overprotective family, ASD／INFJ-T, white American conformity pretending disorders exist, but ironically overlook them thinking all are equal no matter how diverse or traditional they get, too many casual people, too expensive, difficult and uninterested in American relationships due to me feeling like a foreigner that rather have indepth conversations than small talk.