Nice Things You Should Have Done (No Judgement Please)

There was a kitten that had been abandoned on a dangerous semi highway, he was a stray, I couldn't bring more cats home, I drove past it, when I returned from lunch, he had been ran over. I cried all day because of it.

Oh my god that is so sad, I’m so sorry that you had that experience. p_q

@koro personally i cant laugh at the situation she tried to kill herself because of the bullies like a few months prior (and the teacher was a chick) (oh edit but shes fine now, last I heard shes living with her fiance)

well glad for her then..still don't think self-preservation was a wrong answer... would have done the same thing if I wasn't able to survive an attack from bullies when I was a kid ^^

It's unfortunate bullying still happens, it's a sink or swim experience for a lot of people. The earlier you learn to stand up for yourself, the better you deal with growing up. Bullies still exist in the adult world, only they do more complex ways to screw you over. And as much as I get you feel bad for not standing up for your friend, the only way its gonna end is if she stood up for herself first. Rarely anyone learns that as a kid.

@tiki Maybe they were drunk too???

@wik Luckilyfor me I’ve never really had to deal with bullies, I think I’ve only had one experience at math class in high school , he sat next to me in class and was trying to distract me, automatically I stood up and told him to shut the f up, drew everyone’s attention to me, i was so embarrassed, but he left me alone after that.

That's a text book way of dealing with it. You publicly told that guy to fk off. So at least your class knows not to push you around. Glad it only escalated to that point. Sometimes fists has to fly for them to get the point. It took me during my college years to learn to stand up to one. Wish I learned earlier. It ruined my chance with girls ^^;