How does one find a gf?

Yes and no mental yes I'm fine emotionally no I'm tired of being lonely and I'm tired of being spammed by bots with the whole "local singles in your area" mixed with the fact that we are experiencing another genetic bottleneck

Yes i have flirted and its fine for people to not like someone back but after a while of "friend zones" you just start thinking something is wrong with you or your not meant to be in this whole dating life.

Okay recruit, first things first. There's no such thing as the "friendzone." That's lesson number one. The sooner you remove that word from your vocabulary, the better. If you get upset or dejected at the thought of meeting someone cool who you have shared interests with and not being able to get in their pants, the problem lies with you. Lesson number two: having a "distinct and friendly personality" really means one of two things: You're either being too cautious and indirect, or you're *really* forcing that friendliness and coming off too strong. Figure out which it is and correct yourself towards a more comfortable middle ground. Don't be a pushover, but don't be a d-bag. Most people would rather spend time with someone they feel is being genuine. Lesson Three: Women are not some alien species. They're people, just like you and me. Get to talking, find common ground or shared interests. Form genuine, meaningful connections with people. The words "Girlfriend" and "Boyfriend" both contain "friend." Your relationship with someone should be based off the same mutual bonds and trust as friendship, with romantic/sexual attraction developing on top of that. Lesson Four: Put some effort into your appearance. Good personal hygiene should be priority in your life anyway, but I'm talking about more than just showering and putting on deodorant (axe does not count). Wear clothes that properly fit you. Comb/brush your hair. Wash your face. Either shave regularly, or keep your facial hair trimmed and under control; Nobody likes overgrown and untamed face pubes. Finally: Be clear with someone when you're interested in them. Be confident in asking them out, once you've already established a connection with them. The worst that can happen is that they turn down your offer. This guide will not turn you into Casanova. This is not they playboy's playbook. But if you follow this advice and keep putting yourself out there, odds are good you'll find that connection with someone you're looking for.

don't give up, actually I met my first gf here, lived across the country and met in person and we dated for a couple of years. Which was almost 6 years ago now, didnt work out but definitely learned what I wanted in a relationship and made me more comfortable dating other girls in the future

here as in this website? damn i didn't think it would actually work

yes in this website, I also know other couples that met here and met up and are now married living together, i met them way back years ago, ofcourse now they dont come back in because they dont need to

but yea, honestly back then i had no intention of actually dating someone from here but one of yall just have to make that push to meet each other, shit sometimes happens when you least expect it